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Well, I tried... :)Posted : 8 Jun, 2020 12:03 PMHi everyone. I had this wild crush on someone I don't even know. I send her several messages, but she is never on her CDFF profile. I found her on Mingles, and she has never visited that site either. She is from South Africa, Centurion area, and apparently never visited her sites for a long time. I had a huge crush on a picture, and really prayed to God to make a way, nothing came of it. I'm slowly weaning myself from praying that God would make a way for me with her. I cannot find her to even message. So, could not find any connection at all outside of CDFF or whatever. I guess it's time to move on. Of course, if she ever replied to me "I'd jump" 50 feet in the air with excitement, but it doesn't look that good. This was a woman who I perceived by her profile that she might have thought she was not attractive. I thought she was hugely attractive. A white lady from Centurion, S.Africa. "God help me to get over the crush of just a picture, and direct me to my future wife, please!" Amen. It sure is painful when the heart wants someone to notice you so bad, but nothing comes from it. Painful, painful. Life, I guess. |
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Well, I tried... :)Posted : 8 Jun, 2020 12:57 PMHi Zee. It's that rushing feeling of excitement when you stumble upon a potential match right? |
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Well, I tried... :)Posted : 8 Jun, 2020 03:42 PMThanks Dave! Sniff, honk, sniff, kleenex. |
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Well, I tried... :)Posted : 12 Jun, 2020 04:16 PMYou are right about the forum, better in broken hearts. Mine has some hope in the brokenness though. |
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Well, I tried... :)Posted : 13 Jun, 2020 02:10 AMI'm glad you're staying hopeful Zee. |
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Well, I tried... :)Posted : 13 Jun, 2020 10:13 AMHi Dave. I went to one singles ministry that is Christian, last year, and I found a lot of people were divorced. I struggle with the scripture of divorce and remarriage. I have never been married, and I cannot see myself marrying a divorced person. I'd certainly be friends and such though. |
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Well, I tried... :)Posted : 14 Jun, 2020 04:15 AMHey Zee. Your stance on doctrine is really respectable. I am also not a believer in remarrying after divorce. |
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Well, I tried... :)Posted : 14 Jun, 2020 04:01 PMBrother Dave. I hear you. That is the part of divorce that I struggle with, when the spouses were not Christian, or domestic violence, safety issues. I still look at the Scriptures of Jesus though. Case by case. it must be so hard for divorcees. Yes, a lot of women may be rethinking their 'careers' in terms of what is so important and what will last eternally. Blessings... |
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Well, I tried... :)Posted : 15 Jun, 2020 06:43 AMYes, it's a struggle. People closest to us can potentially inflict the greatest amount of pain. In any case, yesterday I decided to quit CDFF for now. Small world indeed and great conversations we had! If we do pass by each other on the streets in RL, that would be funny. Take care Zee. Pray God will continue to lift you up as you heal and may he provide you the opportunity to meet someone that you can be sincere with. |
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Well, I tried... :)Posted : 15 Jun, 2020 05:11 PMThanks Dave. I hope to see you back here, if you come back. If not, "God, give Dave a great wife," in Jesus' Name, amen. |
The human heart just wants to connect badly and be understood. Valiant effort man.
You're still in my prayers.
Keep faithful Zee!