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satan knows our weakness
Posted : 24 Jul, 2009 05:17 AM

You know,right about the time you think your doing ok,walking with jesus,some unsaved cutey,with all the things you find attractive in a girl,comes along and twinkles her little eyes at you!Being single is tough,especially for a man with our sexual apetite!I dont care how cute she is,I will not date an unsaved women ever again!Anybody relate to this?

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Posted : 24 Jul, 2009 11:43 AM

did you mean to ask gals if they would date unsaved man?



to be truthful, if i consider a long-term relationship or marriage i desire one who folllows Christ's teachings and not bits and pieces. However, for friendship and short-term compainship i would date and have non-Christians. My ex-husband was casual with his beliefs, and with that it is easy to be casual with the importance of relationships, vows, etc.



Men are not the only one with strong sexual desires. AND there are men with very low ones. So we all struggle and cave. There will be many who will contribute to your question who are very well versed with what the bible says on this issue and have excellent advice, my contributions are from my person reflection.

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Posted : 24 Jul, 2009 06:01 PM

Yes he does know our weakness.

The key is so do you and so you cant fight it and him..



The bible says to be equally yoked.



Men and women both have desires the key is to be strong and resist them. Pray



GBU

Bethany

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Posted : 24 Jul, 2009 06:13 PM

thankyou for the replies ladies,Im not ashamed to admit Im kind of lonely,Ive been saved for about a year now,and,well I was kind of a badboy type before so I dont have a lot of good christian friends,Its nice to talk to people on here!I am totally in love with jesus:applause:so there is no way I would date anyone who is not his,just not happening!Also i work third shift so that limits my options even more!If i die alone,thats ok,no one can love me like Christ!!!!!!:yay:but it sure would be nice to have someone to snuggle with at night!

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Posted : 24 Jul, 2009 08:08 PM

I relate! This is why I took a vow of celibacy until I am fully committed.



It is great; you should give it a try. It takes "sex" out of the equation so you can actually think with your head and feel with your heart vs. other parts.



And besides you would be surprised at how many who are not in it for the right reasons run when they here you confess you are celibate. It is almost like a relationship "weed-b-gone".





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Posted : 24 Jul, 2009 08:19 PM

Oh i wouldnt even consider having sex,and i havent since ive been saved!Uhh how honest can i be here,I have pleasured myself,but not with porn!This may not be appropriate,i dunno,anyway,im really struggling with that:boxing:Ive been doing better,ok,i think i went off the deep end there,sorry if i offended anyone In Christ Steven

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Posted : 24 Jul, 2009 08:25 PM

No offense here... your human. :applause: Human is a good thing. I will pray for you! :prayingf: LOL

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Posted : 25 Jul, 2009 06:34 AM

Steven



no offence taken we are human and if you cant talk with us here who will you talk to? I mean some may say just act on your desired while we appluade your waiting and avoiding porn..personally i never understood the draw men have to porn.. but I am a lady so how could I



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bethany

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Posted : 25 Jul, 2009 11:57 PM

I know what you mean I WILL NOT date someone who is unsaved.



I have dated someone who was unsaved in the past (many many many years ago) rationalizing by dating them I could show the love of Christ to them and get them saved but the sad truth is (as alot have found out) it usually is the opposite and you are catching yourself either fixing to stumble or have just realized you fallen.

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Posted : 13 Feb, 2010 05:40 AM

I was unequally yoked for 18 years.

I thought I could change her too.......

Nope, just got worse........

It got better after she left me for another man.....



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Posted : 13 Feb, 2010 06:43 AM

dear h s , welcome to the forums.

ole cattle

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