Author	Thread: What A Man Wants
Admin	What A Man Wants Posted : 23 Apr, 2010 09:31 AM I recently heard an interesting analogy by a non-Christian male and I'm wondering if there's any truth in it. He says that far more non Christian men can look at a female and value her worth based more on her heart and less on the physical because finding a non Christian woman with a truly sincere and good heart, whom you can have a solid emotional connection with is so rare, where as sexual experiences are a dime a dozen. On the other hand, he says that Christian men seek more the physical attraction in a woman because they're used to having spirit filled, emotionally in tune friendships with Christian women, while for many of them pornography may be there only means or standard of a sexual relationship so they tend to seek out women who fit that mold. Now, I'm not saying he's right or wrong...I just wanna know what you think and if anyone would even admit this if it were true? Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	What A Man Wants Posted : 23 Apr, 2010 10:06 AM I can only speak for myself, but I'm looking for a girl who not only am I attracted to physically, but who I also actually enjoy, want to spend time around, and have a deep connection with. Post Reply
View Profile History	What A Man Wants Posted : 23 Apr, 2010 10:44 AM Hmmm... Interesting. Can't wait to see what more guys say! Post Reply
View Profile History	What A Man Wants Posted : 23 Apr, 2010 10:59 AM Women like to have a relationship with guys who they trust. I want somebody I can trust. Trust is very important to me. I also wat a woman who finds me funny, and is a real :hearts: Yes, sweetheart. No drunks please, smart ladies need apply.Email me and we can get to know each other. proverbs 31 lady wanted. Hey, this is now a add. :ROFL: Love you all,Dennis Post Reply
DontHitThatMark View Profile History	What A Man Wants Posted : 23 Apr, 2010 04:24 PM Yeah...I don't think so. Could be true in some cases I suppose....but I don't know very many guys like that... :peace::peace: Post Reply
DontHitThatMark View Profile History	What A Man Wants Posted : 23 Apr, 2010 04:24 PM And if they are they must not be very good at being christian yet... :peace::peace: Post Reply
View Profile History	What A Man Wants Posted : 23 Apr, 2010 06:41 PM I think those parameters are too broad and there are way too many variables in there to support that conclusion. so the best i can do is say maybe maybe not. What a man wants and spends nearly every waking moment of his life doing is figuring out how to give and get the love of a beautiful woman. not beautiful outward and ugly inward or vise versa, or neither. we want it all. some go about it better than others, and some are further ahead than others. i wonder if we'll ever completely figure it out. :rolleyes: Post Reply
Vagrant View Profile History	What A Man Wants Posted : 24 Apr, 2010 01:46 AM I've been a Spirit-filled believer for almost 10 years now, and the ministry of Jesus Christ is my life, so I've seen enough to have a pretty good idea of what all the modern day courting rituals are in the church. I've been searching for a pure, virtuous, and sincere Christian woman since God got me. I can honestly say that finding a righteous woman of God seems next to impossible, these days. Without divine intervention, it almost seems as though guys have no choice but to compromise on some scale. I dated a lot of immature girls. The mature ones were all twice my age... After enough failure and heartbreak, I fell into a pit and started looking outside the church for girls to just sleep with... I was tired of searching for something that just doesn't seem to exist. While I am happy to say that God pulled me out of that pit, the fact still remains... It's extremely difficult to find mature, righteous women... That said...a righteous man will wait as long as it takes to find a righteous woman... Post Reply
mcmarilyn View Profile History	What A Man Wants Posted : 24 Apr, 2010 12:17 PM I'm newly divorced and new to dating and have only had one boyfreind so I really can't comment. But all the single men I know are just looking for a woman who can be a great freind and share good times with. The intimacy comes in time. My dilema is; do men base their attraction on looks and sexuality or intelligence and chemistry? Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	What A Man Wants Posted : 24 Apr, 2010 01:40 PM Marilyn, the answer to your question is essentially "yes." What women each man finds physically attractive changes from man to man though. And personality types they like differ too, so just don't worry about it. Shower regularly, wear clean clothes, etc., but quit worrying about what guys want you to be like and just be the you who you are. You'll attract much higher quality guys that way. Post Reply
View Profile History	What A Man Wants Posted : 24 Apr, 2010 02:04 PM I had to read this a couple of times so please correct me if I'm wrong. This non-Christian guy says non-Christian guys are looking for a more spiritual woman, and Christian men are looking for a more "worldly", carnal, sexual woman? Speaking for myself and how I understand things - this is 180 degrees out of wack. Im not surprised that a non-Christian man would get this wrong (why are you listening to him anyway?). A non-Christian man is going to be attracted to a worldly girl that will satisfy the flesh. But look how many times Jesus said those of the world will hate followers of Christ. A TRUE Christian man should find the Fruits of the Spirit attractive in a TRUE Christian woman. He's going to see her and be attacked to her because the one Holy Spirit will be living in both of them! Their attraction to each other will surpass visual attraction - it will be multileveled This is why I try hard to stay godly (close to the Lord) and pray for her to do the same. How else will we hear the Holy Spirit's guidance? Post Reply

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