...why would you wink? :)

Posted : 24 Sep, 2009 01:19 AM

wow this site is pretty neat I didn't even realize it had forums... that's pretty exciting =~)



That being said I would guess if you get a lot of winks and not enough messages you should probably update your profile to make a conversation more accessible or easier to start. That is to say maybe leave some openings for questions or comments that could be used to initiate some sort of "chit chat".

I suppose if someone was shy they may use the wink as a "e-Flirt" of sorts just to see if they get a response before trying to spark any type of verbal interaction. In order to be noticed without any fear of rejection, but somehow when you get rejected online it's not as ....umm...... noticeable. (for lack of a better word):goofball: