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Henry2019^ View Profile	Site Falling Apart Posted : 17 Nov, 2022 08:34 AM Most problems with CDFF are related to these idiotic smartphones (I was raised before mobiles and Internet). So try to live without a smartphone - I can recommend! I only use a dumbphone for calls (and sms). That's enough. I use desktop computer for net, and, here comes my point: use the web version of cdff and you will avoid all ads, all trouble, all time consuming lags and horrors I can't even what else those phones (with their microscopic nightmare keys) can deliver. And ditching your "smart"phone will save you a fortune believe me.
Henry2019^ View Profile	Deactivaged My Zoosk Account DANGEROUS WEB SITE! Posted : 17 Nov, 2022 08:25 AM Yes this online life with dating is crazy. Remember NEVER pay for anything online, never, ever. You will be in deep trouble. I only buy from trustful sources (very seldom) like amazon.de. But never ever pay for a dating site of any kind - most are also scam sites. Personally I'm against all so-me and online life because it's leading humanity in turmoil, so many children and youngsters even ready to commit suicide and in really deep mental problems. We need alternatives. In real life. Will look into this now. God bless.
Henry2019^ View Profile	Serious alternative to online dating scam Posted : 14 Sep, 2022 02:31 PM Just to briefly inform you my dear friend: youth of today even commit suicide because of their mental health problems due to so-me addiciton and the artificial life staring 24/7 constantly at their phones like smartphone zombies indoor and outdoor. I would not call this comparable with, or less dangerous, than real life. We have to understand the technocracy dangers we face now, and not accept everything simply "going with the flow" - that is the real danger of our society right now and utmost dangerous for our children and future generations, who are formed and mold casted from childhood. There is a significant difference in anchoring in real life, not living the Insta-lie, or living hooked to the mentally disturbing artificial addiction life of anti-social media.
Henry2019^ View Profile	Serious alternative to online dating scam Posted : 8 Jul, 2022 04:13 AM Sounds great. Will myself seriously consider re-establishing a local friend team activity, focused on meetings in real life, only using so-me as trigger platform (no chats or online forums instead meetings). As we true Christians know, Christ himself would never use a smartphone or computer to socialise or emphasise human relations and communication built on such an artificial, misleading and badly corrupting technology, that most of us are slaves and addicts with, forgetting completely about human needs for touch, feelings, emotions and natural expressions and contact understanding. God knows, and sees how our children these days are already traumatised, disfigured and malfunctioning mentally and physically, some in extreme danger. So-me is anti-social media. All our concentration and focus as well as communication is solely based on intermediate electronic filtering, a middle hand that filters rejecting mostly, not accepting. This is true also with our lifestyles; we have enormous welfare and are isolating from eachother more and more in egocentric fashion - sounds familiar doesn't it in regards to man's relation with God, how it turned to isolation right? The reason I do not want to go into here, although I have a clear stance on it. Let's remember to promote what Jesus wanted us: human contact and natural interaction, leading to deeper understanding and relationships, not the opposite with so-me anchoring, leading to divorce after divorce.

Henry2019^ View Profile	Serious alternative to online dating scam Posted : 19 Jun, 2022 04:21 AM Thought of sharing my thoughts on the dating scheme, the actual, honest picture and lifestyle we all live right now, today. As you all know (I guess the younger gens may not interpret the same wavelength here) we live our lives constantly hooked up and connected to so-me and dating (singles) like, and could be in the future, an actual biomechanical extension of the human body. I am not exaggurating. We are 24/7 connected, living our "Insta-lie" life trying to find social comfort electronically, virtually, artificially, all through phones and computers, instead of real life natural communication. Actually so-me I call anti-social media, because it is an addiction source, as studies show, degrading our health - in some cases severely among youth of today - but at the same time, as we all know, an obligatory unwanted but yes so essential and important part of our modern lives. Why? The answer is simple. Because there are no alternatives. Especially regarding dating. But also our social life; many are completely isolated from real life natural interaction with human beings, and this, my dear Christian friends, I find extremely alarming and disturbing. The fact that, from morning to evening, we search for "human touch" and "feelings" and "love" through online sources is a clear sign something is wrong. Write me your thoughts, everyone appreciates to read yours too. This is why I come to my point: today, as we know, millions suffer enormously continously and endlessly by the lack of any serious alternatives to dating sites, with aim to find a trustful life companion. We suffer fighting scam, trickery, dangers online, untrustful all the time, nowehere near as Christian as it should be - Christians want to trust eachother, likewise, as Jesus teached us and talked to us face to face - I want to underline this: face to face, in real life. This was also his important message: we should value real human and humane interaction, our need for true feelings, our need for human way of natural communication - something online artificial so-me and dating life never can fulfil. Thus, I come to one solution: we need serious alternative to so-me and dating online. Agree? I created once a "friend team" - the idea simply this: (and simplicity is the truth! :) We could have local organised activity, with aim to meet, not tweet. It could be using social media and it should, but the real focus would be on real life meetings with activities, never chats, forums online, sharing anything online, but meeting and doing it all for real. It could be a "friend team" focusing on exactly this: meeting and getting to know eachother through real life activities and hobbies. I'm not writing this without reason; there is nothing like it yet. So, as you understand, these should be global, local. I have experience in this. So if you would be interested in this concept, helping to create a local activity, I can help you on the way. I hope I can share some light into this dark world. Let's remember, Jesus would never use a smartphone. Let's remember, what the true values of Christianity is: social interaction and meetings between people, naturally, not virtually. That brings both physical and mental health, and fulfils all our human needs, something no phone or computer could ever do.
Henry2019^ View Profile	Be careful good Christians! Posted : 17 Jun, 2022 12:28 PM Yeah you're right. Well, some points still I can share with you. You are right in principle about the hasted FB-request but here I need to point out the following: As I wrote, CDFF says stay on this platform. Well, then you are in trouble. Especially if you put feelings in talks, because you will NEVER know, that a person is legit, before you move your discussion outside of CDFF and do the legit methods I recommended, right. So the 100% secure way is to accept that video call BUT remember that the user may be using a pre-recorded video material running, so you need to ensure it's realtime by asking questions, you need to get proper response. Another way is mimic pictures. Works this way if anyone does not know: you send a pose pic where you show for example three fingers and your face must be in the pic too. Then the user must send you exactly the same. Remember how easy it is to Photoshop/digitally modify pics nowadays. So you need to do this at least two times. For example: three fingers, show a ball with fingers. Then, after your turn, you need to swap/turn around so the other person can ask you to do what the other person shows. You are following right? So this method is also 100% full proof, IF you do more than one pose, and get exact correct response. Yeah this site is full crammed of weirdos, I know. I just cleared my contact list there was hundreds of ghosts (no pic/user disappeared) and e-mail scammers (ask for e-mail) or Whatsapp scammers - these are the worst and appearing the most: I never ever accept a person with that silly Whatsapp, no one should share personal phone numbers. Be well & may God protect everyone
Henry2019^ View Profile	Be careful good Christians! Posted : 21 May, 2022 08:50 AM Just thought about sharing these points briefly, I hope I can help you be careful. - Never ever, ever, put emotions or feelings online, never. If you do, and you find out the person is scammer, you can be seriously hurt - The only way to confirm 100% a person is legit, is by a video call. Remember: video calls can also be pre-recorded; you must request the person to talk in the vcall to get evidence he/she reacts to your sentences accordingly. An IG- or FB-account is no proof the person is legit. Not even if there are plenty of pictures of this person - Remember: this site is full crammed of fake scammer profiles - but as many here say, so it is on all sites, that do not take our (users) safety and respect our feelings and the trust we need seriously. This is not CDFF fault, actually this site is the best free site out there (I have used them all) because here is at least monitoring which other sites don't have (only reports). Hope to see though that CDFF would be the first to have built-in video call possibility in the future - and finally break this horrific experience with scammers. So it is not true what CDFF writes, that you should not take the discussion outside, because outside is the only way to make the video call to ensure legitibility and we need to do it anyway sooner or later to proceed with the relationship. I think CDFF should rewrite and rethink these facts. - Russian users: beware. I just encountered one, who openly supports the bloodshed in Ukraine, so please be aware of the fact that although this is a Christian site, here are non- or anti-Christians as well. In these days it becomes more and more obvious who really are aware of what Christ teached us, and the truth is, not many are. Leaders opt for weapons, Christ opted for non-violence and the message of love, at all times. 7+ years of dating site experience Stay safe!
Henry2019^ View Profile	Messages being blocked Posted : 8 Oct, 2021 02:46 PM With years of experience on CDFF also other dating sites, also myself experienced exactly the same, I can say to you report this user immediately. It's a scammer. Especially Ukrainians are trying to link you to commercial webistes to continue chat by force. Asians are often scammers and portray themselves only with Whatsapp - avoid all Whatsapp only-users right from the start. Your story is exactly like mine. There is a user (DeniHer) who acted precisely the same way; we had very promising discussion even loveful, then suddenly blocked. I reported her without a doubt.