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jenchickee View Profile	THE WINK DIARIES {a little experiment!} Posted : 4 Sep, 2010 07:30 PM I've got on my profile, near the end, that I don't respond to winks - start a conversation, say hi. I get them anyway. And I still don't respond. Those guys either are not reading my profile, or not following directions. However, I keep in mind that men are normally more visual that women. But still...goes back to not following directions.
jenchickee View Profile	confused Posted : 17 May, 2010 06:42 PM I should sell these books - For Men Only and For Women Only. I've read them both, given For Men Only to male friends for Christmas - doubt they've ever been cracked open though. I tried. I went as far to give them to non-believing friends that were struggling in their marriage. It helped for a time - but bigger issues remained. The books are surveys taken from married, single, old, and young men. I got For Young Women Only and gave it to my daughter...she, of course, had to take her own survey and was happy that what she read was accurate. Anyway, I've been single for 12 years now, and I have arguments with God frequently. But as another poster stated, His plans are much deeper and better than my own. Yeah, I have a "list" and it helps keep me focused on the Desires of my heart - not the wants of my heart. I can get a "man", but not one I'd be equally yoked with or get for all the wrong reasons. I have to trust that He knows best. Yes, men are simple, but they're also vulnerable and not the hard as stone creatures are mothers said they were. Girl, read the book. It says it all, and I've got back-up guys to say it's true! :glow: ~Jennifer
jenchickee View Profile	God Bless Posted : 21 Jan, 2010 05:55 PM Hi Jumpshigh, Thanks for posting that. I am having a really tough week with my 19 y/o and that is just what I needed to read/see/hear. Thanks. You're mom is blessed. And I can only hope for a future best friend status with my daughters. Blessings, ~J
jenchickee View Profile	question to all women Posted : 21 Jan, 2010 05:46 PM Archimedes: You nailed it! :yay:

jenchickee View Profile	Tough or Coward?? Posted : 19 Jan, 2010 06:47 PM I am attracted to the tough guy - not a cussin', fightin', mean tough guy. But a guy where his yes means yes, and no means no. He's not afraid to stand his ground for what he's passionate about. That's tough. Yet, he's also sweet. Says the best things and he's funny. He kisses his mama too. He's not a coward, but a "wise" man - in that he knows when he's talking to a foolish person, and some battles are not going to be won. How does the saying go? A wise man knows when to be quiet. That's not a coward. This guy is hard to come by....a sweet, manly man. Yeah, I'll take that one. :rolleyes:
jenchickee View Profile	The Shack By Young Posted : 19 Jan, 2010 06:39 PM Hi Cat. I LOVED The Shack. Lots of controversy though. Its not biblically sound. And I agree with that. However, it IS a great book about relationship. Many have said, "Oh, it makes God a woman." But they didn't read far enough to see what happens at the end. And its only fiction. Its' FICTION people! My take on all this is: I wouldn't suggest it to a non-believer. It could steer them wrong. The Shack is the best Christian Fiction I have read in a very long time. The review: http://www.wretchedradio.com/pdf/shack_geisler.pdf
jenchickee View Profile	The Favorite List? Posted : 19 Jan, 2010 06:11 PM I think of the favorite list as a "bookmark" - to check out later, or as some have said, they're your friend. However, it gets a little creepy, when you haven't had any contact with them. And I don't like winks. If you are interested say hello, and what you liked about my profile that made you say hi in the first place. Its just conversation.:buddies:
jenchickee View Profile	Seperate the Men from the Boys Posted : 19 Jan, 2010 06:05 PM Nice, nice list there. I have a list of my own. And I think its a great list. One of the things on my list is that he respects ALL the women in his life - daughters, mother, sisters, other family and friends. And I s'pose this is the thinking of others category. Like the lady in the last post, I was afraid of "showing" a guy my interests, only because I didn't want to seem forward, and give him the impression that I was easy (like you, been there, done that.) But I've learned quite a bit about men, and you hate rejection too. You're not made of iron and have hearts of steel that don't get hurt. I will show my interest. Its ok. But I still expect a guy to "lead". It just works that way. Nice post.
jenchickee View Profile	OfficialIshahWright Posted : 17 Jul, 2008 02:43 PM Yea, that is bizarre. I really can't think of anything else to say that would be Christian-like. I only hope she's safe.