Why are there more foreingner women here than American?
Posted : 8 Jun, 2015 01:35 PM
Doesn't matter what time of day I come on, almost all the women online come from a country other than the U.S. Usually from the Philippines or one of a few African countries. Almost no American women online.
And of course, most of the women who visit my page or who show any interest in me are foreigners.
Or are most American Christian women just not into this site or online dating?
It's kind of flattering, but it's starting to get to me.
Nearly all the women who check out my profile (and I am sure many men here feel the same) are Filipinas.
I have good friends that are from the Philippines and my ex was one. Though she choose to date and later marry a man she really had no business being with as a Christian, since he was a nonbeliever and backslider while they dated among other things. And he supposedly recommitted his life to Jesus just to stay with her.
I find Filipina's attraction to men like me somewhat questionable. Is it really that hard for them to find Christian men in their own country? Why are they choosing to go after Americans? For a better life from poverty? (Even though our economy is pretty bad right now?) Do they think we are more interesting? White men are more attractive? (But Australia & New Zealand is closer...)
The average American man is dumb, clueless, ignorant, easily distracted by entertainment, loves porn, has no interested in educating themselves or using critical thinking skills and many of the American Christian men don't live or act as they should as Christians. And yet Filipinas are still into us?
If they like us men just because they can get nice looking children, or to escape poverty, isn't that pretty selfish? Also they are drawn to much older men too. Men old enough to be their dads, which kind of creeps me and others out. I heard its because they think older men are more mature, which is not always true. Plenty of them are perverts and love to go after younger women to manipulate them. And some people even think women having children with much older men is selfish because you can't grow old with him and he may not live long enough to see the important events in the kids life. What do these people have in common with that age gap? Also with the older men, these Filipinas go after men that were married and are likely guilty of adultery.
I am somewhat open to having another Filipina gf when the time is right, but I am trying to be pretty cautious.
It's been more than a year since I broke with my ex. And I still feel the pain. Probably more lately than last year.This whole year has been difficult for me, even when I have a crush on someone else already.
My relationship with my ex was long distance. She said she needed space, but it looked more like a break up, even when i asked her not to break up. Soon after, she was deeply sorry and wanted to make up, but she probably appologized too soon. She sent me a couple of songs to show how she felt, but i was feeling so hurt, empty and hopeless about meeting up and I felt like my love for her was gone, but really wasn't. I didn't accept her apology and I later felt like a fool for it. I got into another relationship soon, which was foolish of me and that didn't last thankfully.
I wanted to make up later. My ex also wanted to get back together, but I felt I needed a little more time to heal first. She then went to another guy. I felt hurt of course. This man was married before and showed more interest in his ex wife. That relationship ended in about 3 months.
My ex wanted to get back with me, which I also wanted. But I felt she needed time to heal from that relationship first and that I should find a job so we could finally meet up after saving some money. She seemed to take it as rejection, which I didn't intend. Soon she got into another relationship.
Later I find this man was a non-believer or backslider, married twice in the past and wanted my ex to be his wife, even though they only dated for a very short time. He wasn't looking for a long term relationship. Some people at my ex's church didn't approve of this relationship. Neither did some of her friends. Almost everyone I asked about this relationship agreed they shouldn't be together. I asked about this in another topic on this forum. Me and others tried to talk her out of this relationship but she didn't want to let him go. He became a believer suppostly a few months ago. But me and others still feel it's improper to get married so fast to a man married twice in the past and who's barely a Christian.
This is what hurt me most of all I think. That she would choose a non-believer over me or any other Christian, even with plenty of people dissaproving. Even when I like another girl at the moment.
Funny thing is, my ex showed hints of guilt and even jealously. Jealously over one of our friends who was into me, but admits she has no right to feel that. The other day she remembered that I called my crush beautiful and that bright back old memories of me calling her that, as though she missed it. Even though her fiance already calls her beautiful. I want to move on from this. Whats really going through my ex's head?
I agree. I don't approve of Christian Zionism and I feel it's not really our job as Christians, especially in America to support Isreal in all that they do. Isreal is not such a "good guy" like many Christians and the media make it out to be.
Certain people even say that Isreal should attack Iran first right now, starting war, possibly World War 3. There are people that would like for this to happen since they think Bible Prophecy will be fufilled.
Are you open to dating girls overseas? Because me and others mainly get foreigners checking us out. I mostly get girls from the Philippines and Africa checking me out and showing interest in me, but I made it clear that I can't really do that at the moment.
I wanted to share this with everyone here and see what they think. This also relates to that other topic I made on advice and dating "Date a non-believer/backslider...." the friend in that topic I mention is really my ex girlfriend from the Philippines who I feel is making the wrong decision. I would have prefered she come back to me or at least date another good Christian. These notes are from my study Bible, dealing with what Samson went through with Delilah. I share this experience also and it's painful and not worth the heartbreak it brings. I wish I remembered this sooner. Here it is:
Samson was decieved because he wanted to believ Delilah's lies. Although he could strangle a lion, he could not smother his burning lust and see Delilah for who she really was.
How can you keep your desire for love and sexual pleasure from deceiving you?
1. You must decide what kind of a person you will love BEFORE passion takes over. Determine whether a person's character and faith in God are as desirable as his or her physical appearance.
2. Because most of the time you spend with your spouse will NOT involve sex, your companion's personality, temperament, and commitment to solve problems must be as gratifying as his or her kisses.
3. Be patient. The 2nd look often reveals what is beneath the pleasant appearance and attentive touch.
Is Biblical Discernment Ministries too fundie, nitpicky, legalistic?
Posted : 13 Oct, 2012 07:37 PM
http://www.rapidnet.com/~jbeard/bdm/
They don't approve of Christmas, psychology, Christian rock music and martial arts among other things. Tongues and healing miracles are no longer possible according to them, only during the early chuch.. Certain people on their expose list don't seem to deserve to be there. There are also links to reviews on movies and books, mainly negative even towards certain Christian books/movies. The Life Application Study Bible gets attacked for certain notes on some verses that claim self-love and for who endorses it.
I am curious about your opinions on this site, after you skim the site for a bit, reading their explaniations on different things. Something tells me they are worrying too much. They do have an artilce named "Are we too negative?"
