Jbenz
Baloo by name, the blues by nature
- Gender
- Male | 39
- Country
- United Kingdom
- City
- London
- State
- England
- Height
- 6'2"
- Last Login Date
- Click here to learn more
- Age
- 39
- Eye Color
- Brown
- Body Type
- Muscular
- Hair Color
- Black
- Ethnicity
- African
- Denomination
- Baptist
- Looking For
- Anything
- Church Name
- The house of God
- Church Attendance
- Once or Twice a month
- Church Raised In
- Baptist
- Do you drink?
- No
- Smoker
- No
- Willing to relocate?
- Possibly, who knows
- Marital Status
- Single
- Do you have children?
- No
- Do you want children?
- Want Children
- Education Level
- Masters/Post Grad
- My Profession
- Architect, performer
- Interests
- Football, Basketball, dancing, Music, art & design, Film, Youth Work
- About Me
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Looking for potentially something I cannot put into 140 characters or capture in the finest of oil paintings. I am open to the idea that Jesus has simply called me to serve him solo as a singleton, but until that is certain and lest my dear mother have my head, I would quite like to find the incredible. She shall be incredible, not because it is what I deserve, nor because she is beautiful, nor because she is gifted, but because she is beautifully made in God's image and she has the heart of the father at the fore.
Recently I have been having visions of my mum in heaven, speaking to her. I couldn't hope to find a partner as selfless and virtuous as she is but I hope to make it my personal responsibility to make whoever she is happy for the rest of my living days, fight the evils of the world for the rest of my days and follow Jesus, for the rest of my days, hand in hand with she who is unknown to me. A partner in crime (so to speak and pardon the wretched cliche), a lover, the mother of my kids, a best friend, my other half is no small thing to find....
I am not a perfect man but I strive for perfection, rather by nature than by choice. So wherever you may be, my incredible, allusive irreplaceable other half of mine....I hope that you might find me. I would like to make you the happiest girl on God's green earth. Don't worry I was a little but sick in my own mouth too just then.
If such a woman can be found, no matter the distance, the ocean between us is merely but a puddle and that mountain merely a molehill.
I of course do not mean to underestimate or patronise femalekind, but this decision of a life partner is of course a very important one for a man. Particularly if one wants to not only live, but thrive, to do God's will and to not have bitterness nor unhappiness pervade or even more ghastly have to ask for permission to see ones own children and the alike that comes with broken unions. The increasing redundancy in which fatherhood is held today, I find pretty grotesque. I don't believe in leaving any children to fend for themselves, never mind my own, I don't believe in abortion and I believe marriage is a serious once in a lifetime commitment. I have made as many mistakes in my life as the next but I won't bemoan my fortune or mere bad luck. After a while a running sequence of bad luck, starts to reflect poorly on my own discernment and decision making, not the rest of the world.
I do unusually have 4 nip*les and a 3 legged Chihuahua called Countess Peaches. I don't really....but I figure this will be less weird to many than telling them I don't have an instagram account or usually prefer rather more direct forms of communication.
In any case life can be hard, so I wish you all best wishes in searching for the Godly desires of your heart. Even if I do not have the wherewith all to see or acknowledge it, remember that you are beautifully made by him.
- First Date
- Thank the Lord!....:yay:
Ok but really...
I am rubbish with women but would be open to many possibilities. Ideally a situation where I do not need to talk too much, as after a while I start to get sick of the sound of my own voice! I am happy listening!
I'm a bit of an enigma perhaps, one half of me is very modern and the other half is very traditional.... example: I love to cook and would happily do so everyday till I die, lol but I would love a traditional date ie dinner and some dancing after. Not the modern day, hip swivelling, derri�re shaking type (although I'm not saying I never enjoy that) the proper type. Proper partnered dancing, some easy listening, Sinatra, Nina Simone, Ray Charles.... you know the stuff.
In the end, if the company is right and the personalities click the setting becomes a little less important. :glow:
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