Vanillah
It is not who I am but Whose I am. :)
- Gender
- Female | 36
- Country
- Philippines
- City
- Antipolo
- State
- Rizal
- Height
- 5'4"
- Last Login Date
- Click here to learn more
- Age
- 36
- Eye Color
- Brown
- Body Type
- A Few Extra Pounds
- Hair Color
- Black
- Ethnicity
- Asian
- Denomination
- Non-Denominational
- Looking For
- Anything
- Church Name
- CCF
- Church Attendance
- Every week
- Church Raised In
- Non-denominational
- Do you drink?
- 1 or 2 on occasion
- Smoker
- No
- Willing to relocate?
- Possibly, who knows
- Marital Status
- Single
- Do you have children?
- No
- Do you want children?
- Want Children
- Education Level
- 4 Yr College Degree
- My Profession
- Nurse
- Interests
- God's Word. Volunteering and Missions. Kids. Books. Food. Art. Music. Stars. Nature. Travel. Movies. Theater and musicals.
- About Me
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I'm praying for a man who would take second place in my heart. Yes, second place. Coz he knows that God is first in me. And, I'm ready to be second place for him too. As I know God is first place in him.
So what is he like?
A mature Christian who loves God more than anything in his life. Someone who doesn't only attend church on Sundays but opens his Bible everyday. Someone I can worship God with, pray with and lead me and our kids to the Lord. Someone who knows he can't control everything, but will consult the One who can. He bears fruit, and shows true Christianity.
Since you're here and you're reading my profile, please don't start messaging me if someday you'll say you feel that you're not ready for a relationship or for a commitment. I think you have enough time to think about that before you came to this site and made your profile.
I am from PH, and i've heard a lot of stories of foreign men getting scared/hesitant of dating someone from here as "we" "all" just want to get green cards and visas to get somewhere or in search of a greener pasture. Our country is not the best country but i love it. If i need to leave, it must be for love. Love meaning not just for the man i will love, but i once left for love myself and my family. For the man i will love, i should leave and cleave. That means following him wherever he is. If that means living in a tent or risking our lives in a war doing a ministry, if he is my husband, i'll be there wherever he is. If he happens to decide to stay here in my country, so be it. And wherever you're placed can be a greener pasture. It's just a matter of perspective and hard work. So why here and how about the distance? Hmmm.. as long as we're under the same sky, breath the same air, walk on the same planet, have faith in God, then you and i are not impossible.
That's why i am praying and waiting to be with someone who loves the Lord so much. And someone who wants to continuously grow in Him. I've been praying and working on readying myself to be a submissive wife. It is God's will for me. And I know it His will that I submit to a man He has designed and created for me.
I can easilly be influenced, but at the same time i am semi-permeable. As long as it doesn't do damage on my faith and my values, i can easilly adapt and copy. Example, i don't like gaming. But if my man likes it and he wants us to spend time doing it together, i can learn it. But if we overdo it, takes much of our time instead of doing other more productive stuff, it has to stop. Things like that.
I am not waiting for a perfect man. I am waiting for someone who worships a perfect God.
I do as much volunteer work as I can and I'm praying for someone who would let me continue doing those. It's not much volunteering that i do. But I do whatever I can. I work 9hrs a day on weekdays, with 5 to 6hrs travel to and from work. I only have enough time left to cook dinner for me and my family, do other chores, walk my dog, read my Bible, pray. And 4 to 5hrs of sleep.
Saturday and Sunday are my volunteering/church ministry day. I do free tutorials for kids in a public school, to help them get scholarships. Sundays, i teach in kids church. 2 classes. One for children with special needs and another for toddlers.
I am a work in progress. Someone introduced me to a book, Transforming Grace by Jerry Bridges. And God has been using it to really transform me. I always try to see the bright side in everything, even before i started reading that book. But since i started it, i fell in love with God more and acknowledge where the light on the bright side is from.
**saying i'm looking for a marriage partner doesn't mean i'm rushing. I just like to date with the intention of marriage. And of course it starts with being friends. :)
- First Date
- Something simple. Eat out, movies, coffee, walk in the park, star gazing, etc.
Or doing charity work together.
Connection is more important than the activity or venue. :)
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