Blushy
Real Love is Unglamorous
- Gender
- Female | 42
- Country
- Philippines
- City
- Tropical
- State
- Albay
- Height
- 5'2"
- Last Login Date
- Click here to learn more
- Age
- 42
- Eye Color
- Black
- Body Type
- Average
- Hair Color
- Black
- Ethnicity
- Asian
- Denomination
- Non-Denominational
- Looking For
- Anything
- Church Name
- Christian Church
- Church Attendance
- No answer
- Church Raised In
- No answer
- Do you drink?
- No
- Smoker
- No
- Willing to relocate?
- Possibly, who knows
- Marital Status
- Single
- Do you have children?
- No
- Do you want children?
- Undecided/Open
- Education Level
- 4 Yr College Degree
- My Profession
- you may ask
- Interests
- cooking, nature, plants, travel, good movies, visual art, listening to music, doodle-ing/drawing and doing random act of kindness
- About Me
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Update: I am currently communicating with an amazing person named Andrew and we are building a good foundation of a really good friendship. I value him and I cherish him.
That being said, I want to politely make it clear that I no longer wish to communicate with anyone else from this site/app. Thank you and God bless you all.
Hola! 😄
It's what's inside your heart that would matter the most to me. It's your compassion and respect to other people, your genuine love for God and your being truthful to your words. 🙂
For me, life deserves simplicity. I am a minimalist and I'm pretty much basic. Material things don't define me as a person. My identity in Christ is that I'm a child of God and I'm very special to Him. I have nothing to brag about myself except God's love for me, for you, for all of us. 😊
I don't allow social media to take control of my life (I only use it when necessary). I don't follow the crowd. It is mainly because I DON'T base my self-worth on other's people's validation, not to mention that most of what we see in social media are fake. I choose to focus on real & more important things in life.
Discernment and peace of heart & mind are also important in my life. I am not perfect and never will I become one but the "getting to know each other better" stage & good communication is very essential to me and I think it is better to be really very honest from the start so that we could avoid wasting anyone's precious time. Old saying but gold, HONESTY is still the best policy.
I DON'T believe in love at first sight.
Love is way more more special than mere attraction, excitement and very superficial things. What people call "spark" is not everything to me. Please don't get me wrong, I understand that the basic attraction is there but it's not just all about that. "Chemistry" or "spark" alone is not enough reason for a couple to stay together. I prefer real connection, real relationship. For me, love goes hand in hand with commitment. You commit yourself to really cherish that person, be truly faithful & respectful to that person, be the best friend to that person regardless of the ups & downs of life. There has to be an awareness of what a mature relationship truly is. A mature-level kind of romantic love is BUILT and doesn't happen in just first sight. And yes, i'm giving emphasis here to a mature-level kind of relationship. Life is also about choices. It's not something we wait for our whole lives to just simply sweep us off our feet while we stand still. We choose who we want to connect with on a deeper level, we decide who to settle with and it doesn't just end there. We take a firm stand for our decisions and choices in life that are well thought of and we understand what a COMMITMENT really is. That, to me, is the mature-level kind of romantic relationship. ❤
A relationship will only work when the two people involved in it are both willing to make it work, with God at the center. I also think that a great relationship starts with two people who have a very close set of morals or values. It would be good to be sanely, peacefully and healthy in love while entering a relationship with mindfulness rather than compulsiveness because we don't want to just hurt anybody in the end, right? 🙂
I like nature very much. I'm more of a traditional or old-fashioned type of woman.
One day in God's right time, I want to be with that very special man who is very genuine and down to earth, someone whose feet touches the ground. Someone who would sometimes love to have silly moments with me! 😄 Someone who would willingly allow me to laugh beside him until I probably realize that being beside him is my new favorite comfort zone haha. 😊 Someone who can still see life's meaning even in the ordinariness of everything. Someone who has thankfulness to the Lord in his heart in every waking day of his life. Someone who feels good about himself without external validation. Someone who is kindhearted and not arrogant but knows how to take the lead. Someone who has integrity and is not afraid to build a true, lasting relationship. Someone who could one day finally make my heart and soul feel like I've made it home. ❤
I am a respectful person and I am considerate of other people. I'm very patient and understanding too but of course, that doesn't give anyone any reason to just take me for granted. 🙂 I am a good listener and I am a woman who would want to make you feel that I am present in your life not just in happy moments but also when you are feeling somewhat down. We could talk, we could pray and we could hug. I am important and so are YOU.
I appreciate openness and growth in a relationship.
I love animals. I take it by heart that they are helpless creatures and that is also why I support the advocacy of a rescue animal shelter here in my local community. Not so long ago, I rescued one stray cat and I immediately adopted him. He is now in good health and he drives me crazy sometimes because of his naughtiness haha 😄 but I love him very much. ❤ He is now my confidant, my constant companion and my sweet hug-giver fur baby.
I also love to be just silly and laugh and goof around sometimes. Wink-wink! 😉 If there's really someone special out there whom the Lord has prepared for me, I wish he could just allow me to be spontaneous & be myself to him and love me just the same. I want us to enjoy simple things in life like seeing new places, exploring a mini forest, hiking (seeing trees, hills & nature is like food to my soul), biking together, star gazing together to appreciate the beauty and vastness of the sky, walk on the seashore holding hands or maybe on some days ask him to piggy-back me while we're having an outdoor picnic. (giggle!) 😄 Life can be enjoyed in so many simple ways whether it is indoors or outdoors. And oh, if home cooked meals sounds great to you too, maybe we could do it together on some days! Yum.
I'm a homebody type of person but I'm also open to try and learn new outdoor activities. Overall, in my own viewpoint, when two people love each other, they will find gratefulness, contentment and meaning in each other's presence -- even in very ordinary days and moments. 💚
• Things that make me scream: heights, spiders & frogs (except kerokerokeroppi).
• I like eating healthier foods because health is our first wealth, right? 😊
• Never been married and I don't have kids.
• I'm a huge fan of SIMPLICITY.
• I love little sweet gestures of surprises. I'm very appreciative of someone's genuine & real effort, no matter how small it is. It's always the thought that counts to me. Nothing is too small when it truly comes from the heart. 😊
• I choose consistency over grandiosity. I want to stay very grounded and careful at the same time.
• I am very attracted to flowers. 🌸🌹🌻🌼
• My primary love languages are quality time and words of affirmation. I would love hugs with lots of love too!
• Fidelity in a romantic relationship is very important to me.
• I don't like the idea of "putting best foot forward".
I prefer a relationship that is very natural, very organic, not pretentious of anything. I prefer a relationship (whether it is friendship or romantic) where the two people know each other's flaws/imperfections yet remains accepting and loving to one another. Real love is unglamorous.
• Generally, I'm more of a silent type of person and I am introvert but I'm not afraid to speak my mind. I appreciate quiet moments and serenity.
• Numbers/Math is not my bestfriend. 🙁 That's one of my flaws haha. 😆
• I honestly love children and I would be grateful to have one in the near future. But just in case my future husband doesn't prefer to have kids, we could talk about it and I am open to adjust for him because in a relationship, I would want to always consider my partner's preference as much as possible. 😊
• Last but not least, I am always hungry. I have a huge appetite for most food. Oh no, did I just scare you away? (giggle!) 😆😄😅
**** If it's true that there are scammers here and you are one of them, spare me please. If you know yourself that you are fake and you just grabbed other people's pictures from the internet, please don't bother sending me a message.
**** This is for the sake of honesty: A man who is into party scenes, bars, pubs, night clubs, has unhealthy vices (drinking alcohol, etc) and is driven only with worldly stuff is definitely not for me.
I'm not here for hook ups. I'm a blessing, not a fling.
**** If you are looking for a sophisticated woman who belongs to Upper Socio-Economic Class in a society, I am not the one you are looking for. I'm just a very ordinary woman who just walks or commutes going to the market wearing my old rubber flip flops. 🙂
By the way, the little girl with me in the photo is my friend's daughter.
If you think we could be good friends, feel free to communicate with me. 🙂 I'm sorry, I don't respond to winks. If you have the intention to befriend me or get to know me, I prefer conversation. Being good friends first would be a blessing enough as i am not rushing anything here. I guess it would also be a great blessing to have a good friend here who also has a personal relationship with God. I would love to have someone to nurture my faith with and I would love to hear about the Lord's faithfulness in your life or just anything that interests you about life itself. So yes, I would love to be your good friend if you're sincere with your offering of friendship. No pressure and no expectations. 😊
And for someone reading this right now who happened to stumble on my profile, just in case you went through a heartbreak in the past and you've been single for quite some time already, don't be sad. Grow from that painful experience. Love yourself. You are special. I know it would be less frustrating for you to have one you can call your girlfriend, but what's it worth if you have to settle with quantity over quality? It's totally fine and there's nothing wrong if you have your "basic standards" for what you are seeking for in a woman. You really should set your basic standards because you know that you have something special, genuine and lasting love to share with her. Go get the inner quality. Live it with someone who loves you for who you are and is truly dedicated in building a relationship with you. Also, don't lie to yourself. Never say anything to someone that you don't really mean. It'll be difficult for you to be genuinely happy if you always lie to yourself.
The search goes on. 😊
Maybe the Lord has just been preparing you all these years in all aspects/areas of your life so that when someone so special finally comes to your life, you will also be finally ready to have her in your life. There's nothing wrong taking time for yourself to work out who you are.
Life is short. It is actually shorter than we think it is. Let's celebrate it in light and love. 💚 Cheers and may our good Lord bless you!
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- First Date
- I assume it's the man who would invite for a date so it depends on what he would want us to do or where to go. But the fact that I'm a very appreciative person, I'm sure i'll be enjoying the first date -- no matter how simple it is. 💚
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