Sheepinwolfclothing
Seeking Emotionally & Mentally Healthy, Godly Wife
- Gender
- Male | 54
- Country
- Canada
- City
- Island
- State
- British Columbia
- Height
- 6'0"
- Last Login Date
- Click here to learn more
- Age
- 54
- Eye Color
- Blue
- Body Type
- Average
- Hair Color
- White
- Ethnicity
- Caucasian
- Denomination
- Non-Denominational
- Looking For
- A Marriage Partner
- Church Name
- dsmf
- Church Attendance
- No answer
- Church Raised In
- Do you drink?
- No
- Smoker
- No
- Willing to relocate?
- Possibly, who knows
- Marital Status
- Single
- Do you have children?
- Yes
- Do you want children?
- Undecided/Open
- Education Level
- GED
- My Profession
- Income
- Interests
- History, God, exercise, writing, communication, social psychology, psychology, child psychology, relationships, self help, speaking, road trips, movies, story telling, science, comparative religion, child rearing, education, crafting,
- About Me
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I'm looking for a loyal, healthy minded, partner, who knows what love is and isn't afraid of looking at herself, resolving conflict or of life commitment.
A genuine, pragmatic, woman, who sticks around, even after the honeymoon phase ends, seems a reasonable to ask for, but ultimately is unrealistic or at the very least, an improbable thing to expect on any dating site, even Christian sites. If you’re afraid of lifetime commitment and just want to sleep around, just know there will be no sekx for one year and so will be a pretty difficult thing to hide. Comprenez vous?
Misanthropia in the dating world is well justified. It doesn’t take very much time to prove personality; (trustworthiness), but if a year seems like an exorbitant amount of time to you, then I will wonder which you care about more.
Relationships don't just click, you have to work at them, long-term. (Mostly working on yourself) This explains why people would much rather sleep around or stay single.
Either you want a life time commitment or you just want promiscuity, serial monogamy, or perhaps life time limerent loneliness?
I believe a relationship with your partner is more important than social status, career, money, material possessions, or sampling in promiscuity. Yet, it doesn't seem like many people actually want a longer than long- “term” relationship, or at least, they don't take finding one very seriously, or don't believe it's even possible in the first place. Seeking temporary relationships is a symptom of deep unresolved personal problems, and makes me wonder how long they think "a long-term relationship" is.
(If you got this far and are thinking of contacting me, prove you've actually read my profile, and you're not a bot, type "red" followed by your message.)
I'm private but outgoing. I don't expect perfection, but I do expect a level of mental and emotional health.
Physical compatibility is just as important, but I'm not unusually fussy.
I'm kind, loyal and intelligent and will really talk to you, so expect open communication.
Want to go exploring? How about thrift storing, swimming pools, hot tubs, hidden sights and new experiences? Perhaps just living life together like a normal couple?
If "independence" is truly more important to you, you should change your status to "casual dating, no commitment", or "not looking.", otherwise I will wonder what you think a “relationship” is in the first place.
If you really do want a functional, long lasting relationship, I'm ready and willing to do the foundation work. Are you?
Let's see if we're on the same page:
We can interpret our feelings as love, but in this sense, love is only chemical in nature. If you truly believe love is a feeling: sorrrry to burst your bubble Cinderella, but Serotonin, Oxytocin, Endorphins, and dopamine are what you're really chasing, not love. Real love is an action, a decision, a choice. Feelings change but love does not.
If all you're looking for is a good feeling, might I suggest you:
1. Get a pet,
2. Do something creative,
3. Get a hug from a friend,
4. Go for a jog,
5. Volunteer somewhere,
6. Use your bob.
If none of those work, seek psychotherapy. (Not kidding)
Otherwise you're chasing a ghost and wasting your time.
How we deal with the normal conflicts in a relationship, says everything about us and what our future together will look like, if at all. Understanding and talking about relationship issues that can come up, without resorting to strong emotion, or manipulation, or abuse, is central to making a partnership work. Flushing out red flags, (if there are any), that make relationship longevity impossible, is important to do right away when getting to know a potential partner. Finding out someone's likes, dislikes and hobbies are great, but do not tell you how they will treat you in the future.
It is important to find out if they aren't in fact, controlling co-dependents, abusive narcissists, mentally ill/ personality or mood disordered, gold digging, running a rip-off scam, or simply going to dump you unscrupulously. The vast majority fit one or more of these unfortunate categories, and therefore make us unavailable for each other. Using Christianity as a pretext to get away with codependent, or narcissistic manipulation is completely unacceptable. Christians should not fancy themselves cult leaders.
(If you've read all the way through this far and put in the effort to understand what I've written, and want to get to know me, please do not type "red", but instead type "green" in front of your message.)
Red flags are either present or they're not. Looking for them does not create them, unless of course, that's exactly what you're doing. Better to know now than weeks or months down the road after emotions have been invested, don't you think? Like most people, if you have no idea what a red flag is, that's a red flag. They most certainly aren’t dislikes or deferred preferences. That's right, you actually have to use your thinker.
If you’re actually able to keep up, put in the effort, capable of giving and receiving real love, you are on the right profile, otherwise keep scrolling. I’d rather be single for the rest of my life than live a single day with the wrong partner. (Not bluffing)
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- First Date
- Lets message, audio, video call, then do coffee or go for a walk.
Play it by ear.
but none of this is likely to happen considering how messed up you think you aren't.
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