Zachary_87
Hello! My potential soulmate!
- Gender
- Male | 28
- Country
- Netherlands
- City
- Groningen
- State
- Groningen
- Height
- 5'8"
- Last Login Date
- Click here to learn more
- Age
- 28
- Eye Color
- Brown
- Body Type
- Slender
- Hair Color
- Black
- Ethnicity
- Asian
- Denomination
- Protestant
- Looking For
- A Marriage Partner
- Church Name
- Vineyard & Stadskerk
- Church Attendance
- Every week
- Church Raised In
- No answer
- Do you drink?
- No
- Smoker
- No
- Willing to relocate?
- Possibly, who knows
- Marital Status
- Single
- Do you have children?
- No
- Do you want children?
- Does Not Want Children
- Education Level
- Masters/Post Grad
- My Profession
- Student
- Interests
- Theology, Philosophy, Culture, History, Psychology, Singing
- About Me
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My favorite biblical text: Mark 12:30, which concerns God's foremost command for me to love Him by all my heart (the seat of emotions), soul (self, primarily spirit), mind (ration&intelligence), and strength (the bodily force). This text philosophically shows that a person's love to God should be fully in the aspects of emotion, spirit, ration, and body. Here, only the first three aspects (heart, soul and mind) are commonly described in Matthew 22:37. This implies that one's emotion, spirit and mind are more fundamental than his/her body in his/her relationship with God.
Moreover, this text implicitly shows the principal guidance for two people to normally build their potential relationship: like a relationship between God and a person, the relationship between two people is also conerned with their connections in the aspects of emotion, spirit, ration, and body. Here, the first three aspects (emotion, spirit and ration) should be more fundamental than body, and prior to the latter. This furthermore indicates that, in a romantic relationship, the emtional, spiritual and rational connections of the two people should be the foundation for their bodily connection ;) It is thus necessary for the potentially romantic partners to first become soulmates.
Then about me: I'm a very religious, philosophical, spiritual, and romantic guy who have lived in the Netherlands for several years. Here, I've just finished a Master program Theology, and currently doing a Master program Philosophy ;)
I was born and raised up in China. However, I don't have a Chinese identity. I'm naturally similar to western people in many aspects, even including my eating habits. It makes me feel the Netherlands, where I currently live, to be more like the home than my homeland. It's even no exaggeration to say that I had lost my self identity in my old cultural background!
My biggest interests are theology, philosophy, culture, history, and psychology. These interests seem to perfectly guide me to learn many elements of Eastern and Western philosophies and cultures, and how consist they are with the Christian values. I also regard myself as a Christian philosopher :)
According to my knowledge, I have to say that Chinese culture and philosophies are simply too superficial to share any compatibility with Christian values. Even all the other philosophies and cultures of Far East have rather limited compatibility with Christianity. So I desperately want to get rid of the influence of my background culture, and find an authentic western identity.
By now, I've somewhat managed to integrate into the Western (mainly Dutch) culture. On the basis of this integration, I've somewhat found the real self identity and Christian/theological identity (I even relate my experience of 'discarding the influence of Chinese culture and finding Christian identity in the Western culture' to the death and resurrection of Jesus Christ)! So, I'll continue this process.
According to my evaluation of the Christian & western age standards, I seriously perceive my inner age is at least 10 years younger than my literal age. On the other hand, I'm amazed about God's miracle that He let me still have the appearance that is almost as young as my inner age ;) It brings me with confidence of growing in His bless! (As you can read from my username, I was literally born in 1987. On the other hand, I regard my inner age is likely to be 18 years younger than the literal one. My profile age is thus the median of my literal age and inner age)
I also like singing. I can even sing some opera songs (with high difficult levels), such as "La Donna รจ Mobile" and "Nessun Dorma".
Concerning my other traits, they are sensitive, empathetic, loyal, sober, frugal, deep-thinking, intelligent, caring, considerate, humble, a bit humorous. And I love bunnies.
Therefore, I'm looking for a western girl who can be my soulmate: having strong spiritual&psychological bond with me, building strong spiritual connection to God with me, pursuing the real Christian values with me, and helping me to integrate into the western culture (hopefully, you are willing to understand my special conditions, including my struggle towards my background and my difficulty of having biological child). As for age, the girl should be younger than my literal age.
I would offer my 100% absolute loyalty, empathy, and pure sincerity to you! I also have a listening ear and opening mind. So you can feel free to share and even pour out anything to me :) I always enjoy deep conversations, which usually bring up my deep philosophical ideas. As a potential husband, I'll absolutely learn to be a spiritual leader/head for you (Ephesians 5:23). And I can sometimes make you laugh (I can be called a tickler ;)
(Generally, I'm better at offering pleasures in the emotional, spiritual and rational aspects than those in the bodily aspect.)
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