random84
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- Gender
- Male | 40
- Country
- South Africa
- City
- Durban
- State
- KwaZulu-Natal
- Height
- 6'2"
- Last Login Date
- Click here to learn more
- Age
- 40
- Eye Color
- Blue
- Body Type
- Athletic
- Hair Color
- Brown
- Ethnicity
- Caucasian
- Denomination
- Protestant
- Looking For
- Anything
- Church Name
- Christ Church
- Church Attendance
- Every week
- Church Raised In
- Other
- Do you drink?
- No
- Smoker
- No
- Willing to relocate?
- Sure, why not
- Marital Status
- Single
- Do you have children?
- Yes but they're grown
- Do you want children?
- Want Children
- Education Level
- Some School
- My Profession
- Business owner
- Interests
- Hobbies: Running, Climbing mountains, Student pilot, Parachuting, Sports shooting (pistol, rifle, shotgun). Interests: Theology, Politics, Charity work, Travel (extensively). Recreation: Restaurants, Cinemas, Netflix.
- About Me
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Update, 2nd January 2024: I am now engaged to be married to the lady mentioned below and am therefore permanently unavailable, God willing.
Update, 25th May 2023: I need to pause all courting-oriented communication with ladies until further notice as a very promising lady is kindly flying in to meet me next week, God willing.
Original profile information: I'm content with my life the way it is, never get lonely, and enjoy being single, but...
I think I'd be even happier sharing my life with someone very special - if such a lady exists.
I'm elaborating on the previous version of my profile so as to save anyone wasting their time, as some very nice ladies have written to me, essentially asking whether, in principle, I'd ever consider "settling" (my word, not theirs).
The answer is, probably not. I realise all ladies have got their pasts and God has allowed them to make mistakes and they've probably learned from them and sometimes become wiser, stronger, and more interesting characters. And I'm very happy and grateful to know such ladies with colourful backgrounds, as friends.
But when considering a possible future wife, I'm only really interested in that rare lady who has always kept on the straight and narrow while maybe nearly everyone around her deviated; who resisted temptation to compromise out of respect for God, perhaps respect for her parents (if she had any), respect for herself, and respect for her possible future husband.
I want to be able to trust and respect my future wife, and if her track record proves that she doesn't respect herself, it's going to be hard to trust and respect her. And if I can't trust and respect her very much, I won't be able to love her truly, so moving forward with her wouldn't be fair, kind, or honest.
I'm therefore looking for a self-disciplined, secure, intelligent, confident, lady who takes great care of herself (by an objective, NOT subjective, standard); knows her own mind; doesn't need the approval of her pretending-to-care but never-there-when-actually-needed friends that probably hate to see her move on with her life towards excellence when they themselves have settled for mediocrity; has a high level of self respect; disciplines herself to exercise regularly and sacrifice treats in order to stay in great shape and make her future husband inspired and grateful every day for what God has given him; and is a serious, Bible-believing Christian that not only believes, but obeys, and when she fails, immediately repents, and doesn't make excuses or seek to justify mediocrity and moral compromise.
Logically, she should therefore be either a virgin, a faithful widow, or a cheated divorcee who has never fornicated.
I would like to have ended it there, but unfortunately, recent conversations with otherwise suitable girls have convinced me of the necessity to request a minimum IQ of 120, as I don't envisage having time to disabuse my future wife of all the specious logic she'll be exposed to by popular culture that promotes the concept: love yourself just as you are; you don't ever need to change or strive to improve yourself; do what feels good; reject delayed gratification... and just carry on consuming.
I would have happily given up this quest and committed to enjoying the rest of my life single, believing that it is not possible to find such a lady, but "unfortunately", I actually met a lady on this site who very nearly satisfied all the above criteria. I spent a few months getting to know her and concluded I would have gladly married and been content with her till my or her death, but for a couple of easily rectifiable stumbling blocks, but stumbling blocks that would have needed to be recognised from her side, not pointed out from mine.
In the event that the right lady exists and is interested, the deal will be: I'll work as hard as necessary to ensure she has all her needs met, has a great life, gets to do pretty much whatever she loves, doesn't have to work unless she wants to; that we can live pretty much anywhere her passport allows; will be provided for and supported in every way by me - as far as God equips me; and all I'll need her to commit to is to agree that our conduct be subject to Scripture; and that she be loyal and affectionate; and never stop taking great care of herself, ie. always maintain self-discipline and NEVER let herself go.
Not super-complicated, and yet I know that 99.99% of ladies can't manage this!
This profile will probably be up for ten years, if the site survives, I don't get banned and Christ doesn't return first. I'm in no hurry.
I'm not limited to a specific country. I have little places in 5 countries and have 3 citizenships, am very mobile, and can live and keep up with my duties from pretty much anywhere.
PS. My birth date is wrong. Can't correct it. I'm 44.
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- Help her relax and know I'm genuinely interested in what's on her mind and what she has to say. Then, listen to her life story and dreams for her future. Don't care where.
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