Besi96
A serious man looking for marriage
- Gender
- Male | 37
- Country
- Albania
- City
- Tirane
- State
- Tirane
- Height
- 5'8"
- Last Login Date
- Click here to learn more
- Age
- 37
- Eye Color
- Black
- Body Type
- Slender
- Hair Color
- Black
- Ethnicity
- Caucasian
- Denomination
- Reformed
- Looking For
- A Marriage Partner
- Church Name
- Grace church
- Church Attendance
- Every week
- Church Raised In
- Evangelical
- Do you drink?
- 1 or 2 on occasion
- Smoker
- No
- Willing to relocate?
- Possibly, who knows
- Marital Status
- Single
- Do you have children?
- No
- Do you want children?
- Want Children
- Education Level
- Some College
- My Profession
- Data Entry Operator
- Interests
- Reading, riding my bike
- About Me
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I have not been vacc1nated with the C0v1d Vacc1ne and I am searching for a girl who has not been vacc1nated. This particular matter is important to me. Please tell me from the begining if you are vacc1nated or not. I greatly appreciate for understanding the significance it holds for me.
By the way, here is how to remove its ingredients from your body: https://www.bitchute.com/video/coABvwDVWwYg/
INTRODUCTION:
My profile is like a good book - it may be a bit long, but if you stick with it, you'll find that it's packed with plenty of thought-provoking ideas, truths and laughs. And just like a good book, I promise it won't put you to sleep! So if you're looking for someone who's got depth AND can make you laugh, look no further.
- First and foremost, let me say that when it comes to important matters like marriage, family, and other aspects of life, it's crucial to understand that we shouldn't rely on our own feelings and opinions but rather than what is truly biblical. Judges 17:6 serves as a warning and cautions us against doing what's right in our own eyes: "In those days there was no king in Israel, but every man did that which was right in his own eyes." So, lets embark on a journey towards a biblical approach. Let's explore what the Bible has to say about these matters.
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BIBLICAL MANHOOD & WOMANHOOD, MARRIAGE, FAMILY, WHAT I BELIEVE, AND WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR:
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- I am seeking a Proverbs 31 woman. I desire a wife who shares my passion for serving God, who will join me in pursuing His will for our lives and glorify Him through our marriage.
- While the man and the woman are equal before God, the Bible is very clear about different roles and responsibilities they have. As a man who cherishes the biblical and traditional values, I believe that a godly woman is feminine, not a feminist, and that dressing modestly, beautifully, and tastefully is a reflection of her inner grace and godlines. "Women should adorn themselves in respectable apparel, with modesty and self-control..." 1 Timothy 2:9.
A godly woman's focus should be on building her home and family. A woman's high calling is to be the heart of her home, creating a loving and nurturing environment for her family to thrive in. I strongly believe in the Proverbs 31 model of a woman who is skilled in all areas of life, who cares for her family, and who is dedicated to keeping her home a priority. Whether she chooses to work from home, sell or run a business, everything a godly woman does should be in service of her home and family. As a man who desires to lead my home in a godly way, I am seeking a woman who shares these same values and understands the importance of creating a loving and nurturing environment for our future family.
The Word of God says: "Train the young women to love their husbands and children, to be self-controlled, pure, working at home, kind, and submissive to their own husbands..." Titus 2:4,5. Please, follow "The Transformed Wife" on Social Media for more about this.
- The man should lead spiritually by example and teaching. His responsibility is to provide, lead, teach and protect. He also should serve his wife with love and humility. Just as Christ served and sacrificed himself for the church, a husband is called to serve and love his wife in the same way. This means being there for her in good times and bad, listening and supporting her, and making decisions together as a team. The husband's leadership should come from a place of compassion and understanding, putting his wife's needs before his own. Ultimately, the goal of a Christian marriage is to reflect the love and sacrificial service that Christ showed for the church.
Paul Washer, a biblical preacher, says: "God has called me to lay down my life for one of His daughters" and that is what I would like to do for my future wife. I want to be a man who will lead, love, care, provide and protect her. To give my life for her, serve her and sacrifice for her. To be a gentleman and love her deeply like Christ loves the church.
Martin Luther said: "Let the wife make her husband glad to come home and let the husband make his wife sorry to see him leave."
MY LETTER TO MY FUTURE WIFE 👰
"My dearest future wife, as I write these words to you, I cannot help but think of the day when we will finally meet. I have been searching for you, and I know that God will guide us to each other when the time is right. I long to lead you, not in a way that dominates or controls, but in a way that nurtures and cherishes. I desire to teach you, not with harshness or criticism, but with patience and gentleness. As we journey together, I promise to be your constant source of encouragement, to lift you up when you are down, and to celebrate your accomplishments with joy. I will strive to be the example that you can look up to, to be a living embodiment of the values and virtues that we hold dear. I will be your protector, standing between you and any harm that would come your way, and shielding you from the troubles of this world. My beloved, you are the helpmate that God designed for me and our love will grow stronger with every passing day. Let us trust in God's plan for us, founded upon Christ, and hold fast to the hope of the future we will build together. I will love you until the end of time."
- I firmly believe that COURTSHIP is biblical. It's essential to be purposeful and intentional in getting to know the other person with goal of marriage. I understand that courtship may seem old-fashioned or even unpopular in our modern times, but I truly believe it's the most biblical, meaningful and fulfilling way to approach a relationship.
As a follower of biblical principles, I understand that my future wife is a woman under authority, authority appointed by God (her parents). That is why I will ask for their permission first before entering into a relationship with her. If their answer is negative at first, than I will pray more and ask them again. Furthermore, when the time comes for me to propose marriage to her, I will once again seek their approval before taking that significant step, as I respect their God-given authority over her.
- I believe that as parents, it's our responsibility to guide and teach our children, both academically and spiritually. I have a deep desire to have a large family, as I believe children are a gift from God and can bring immense joy and purpose to our lives. For this reason, I also believe in homeschooling as it provides an opportunity for our children to be taught in a Christ-centered environment and grow up knowing and loving God. It's a big responsibility, but I believe it's worth the effort to invest in the lives of our children and raise them to be godly. Voddie Baucham says: "If you send your children to Caesar for their education, don't be surprised when they come home as Romans".
- I firmly believe in the importance of Family Worship. It's a time for the entire family to come together, with the husband/father leading the wife and the kids to read the Bible, catechism (a form of teaching with questions and answers) pray, and worship together. I believe this daily practice can have a profound impact on our spiritual growth, and our relationship with God and each-other.
As a man, I am the priest, representing my family before God, a prophet, proclaiming God's truth to them, and the interceder before God for my family. I long to lead my future family in Family Worship and create a home where God is at the center of our daily lives. It is my greatest desire to have a wife who shares these beliefs and is passionate about raising children in the ways of the Lord. The Word of God says: "I have chosen him (Abraham), that he may command his children and his household after him to keep the way of the LORD by doing righteousness and justice..." Genesis 18:19.
- In addition to spending time with just our family, I think it would be wonderful to open our home to friends and loved ones, sharing not just a meal but also fellowship and conversation. I believe that hospitality is an important part of loving others, and I look forward to creating a warm and welcoming environment where everyone feels comfortable and cared for.
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Here is an article about Feminism and what it has done to women, families and society:
https://feminasolagratia.com/ addressing-feminism-biblically
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Wow, I'm impressed! You must have bionic eyes to have read all of that! Maybe you have the gift of reading? 😄😄 I will let you continue...
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THE GOSPEL, BIBLICAL TRUTHS, MY PASSION, AND THE SEARCH FOR A HELPER:
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- I have a heart for evangelism, and nothing brings me more joy than sharing the Gospel with those who have yet to hear it. I have gone to the streets to preach to unbelievers but as much as I enjoy evangelizing alone or with a friend, I can't help but think how wonderful it would be to do this together with my future wife. Imagine the impact we could have as a team, sharing the message of salvation. It would mean the world to me to have a partner who shares my passion for evangelism.
- Sharing the biblical truths is one of my greatest passions. We live in a time when diluted and false gospels are being preached from many pulpits. Unbiblical teachings are prevailing and half/soften truths are being presented. I want to be biblical and I want to stand for the truths of God's word.
I hold firmly to the biblical truths and do not compromise on them. I believe that it's crucial to share the gospel in its purest form, without watering it down or sugarcoating it to make it more palatable. That's why I have created websites, translated biblical articles, and videos in my language. I am willing to sacrifice my own comfort and even my basic needs, rather than compromise the truth. This is because I firmly believe that the gospel is the only way to salvation and it's my responsibility to share it faithfully with others. I may come across as straightforward in these things, but it's only because I care deeply about the Gospel and the eternal destiny of souls.
- I am working remotely for an american company but my work online is not just a means to support my family, but also a way to make a lasting impact in the Kingdom of God. I am committed to translating and publishing sound biblical literature for believers, as well as creating evangelistic tracts to share with unbelievers on the streets. My goal is to use my skills and resources to further the gospel message and advance God's kingdom.
- It's my desire to find a helper where we could do all these things together. Someone who shares my passion for living out biblical truths, evangelizing, and making an impact in the world. Together, we could support and encourage each other, using our unique gifts and talents to further the cause of Christ. I envision a relationship where we are not just husband and wife, but also best friends, sharing the joys and challenges of life and ministry.
- I am seeking a loving and supportive companion who will journey with me, hand-in-hand, as we glorify God through our work and our relationship.
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THEOLOGY, MY BELIEFS, THE EYE-OPENING SERMON, AND MY FAVORITE PREACHERS:
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I am a wretch and a great sinner in great need for grace.
Preachers that I like and listen to are: Paul Washer, Steve Lawson, John Macarthur, Voddie Baucham, James White, Charles Spurgeon, J. C. Ryle, A. W. PINK, the Puritans, etc. Although I deeply appreciate the wisdom and insight of these preachers, which are Christ's gifts to his Bride, the church, I always measure their teachings against the ultimate standard of truth, which is the Bible alone.
The sermon that truly impacted and transformed my life by opening my eyes and revealing profound biblical truths is none other than Paul Washer's "Shocking Youth Message". If you haven't seen it already, I highly recommend giving it a listen and experiencing its life-changing impact for yourself. It is translated in many languages. Watch it on Youtube in this link: https://youtu.be/HkPFv7v9CkY
I hold firmly to the foundational principles of the Protestant Reformation, commonly known as the "Five Solas." These include Sola Scriptura (Scripture Alone), Sola Fide (Faith Alone), Sola Gratia (Grace Alone), Solus Christus (Christ Alone), and Soli Deo Gloria (For the Glory of God Alone). As a believer in the doctrines of grace, also known as Calvinism or Reformed Theology, I believe that salvation is entirely by the grace of God for the glory of God. Learn more here: https://fivesolas.com/tulipscriptures.htm
We are saved by Grace alone, through Faith alone, in Christ alone, for the glory of God alone.
It's important to be part of a biblical church that will quench your thirst for biblical truths and sound doctrine, and leave a deep impact on your spiritual life and eternity. I would encourage to look for a Reformed/Calvinist Baptist church in the area. I also strongy recommend listening to the preachers I have mentioned above. You will be truly blessed. 😊 God used that sermon from Paul Washer as a catalyst for my return to the old paths and sound doctrine, and it led me to embrace Reformed Theology. This is why I hold the beliefs that I do and think the way I do.
(If you need a good church to go in your city or country. Reach out to me and I can find one for you.)
I'm passionate about theology and always eager to discuss it with others. So if you have any questions or just want to chat about it, don't hesitate to ask me! 😊
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5 REASONS WHY TO MARRY ME:
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T - Totally dependable
U - Unconditional love
L - Limited arguing
I - Irresistebly good looks
P - Perseveres anything with you.
Everyone who knows about TULIP will understand this 😄
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OTHER IMPORTANT THINGS ABOUT ME:
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- I have saved myself for marriage. I have never had sex (and I will not have sex until marriage).
-I am ok with kisses on the forehead and hand as gestures of affection, but I believe that kisses on the lips belong to the wedding day and after. I personally believe in waiting until the wedding day to share such a meaningful and intimate experience with my future spouse.
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I speak English fluently, and Italian - good. I can understand most of what's being said in Spanish, and can kinda-sorta follow along with Portuguese. And as for Korean, well, let's just say I know enough to say 'annyeonghaseyo' (hello) and impress all the K-pop obsessed people. 😎
And I'm all about surprises and gifts 🎁 - giving and receiving them! There's something special about the unexpected, don't you think? I would love to give flowers and other surprises to my future wife as often as possiblle.
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I own a cozy and comfortable apartament, and I am an avid reader with a personal library that lines an entire wall. The vast majority of my books, around 90%, are Christian literature, which speaks to the importance of my faith in my life and the remaining books are dedicated to essential topics like home, health, medicine, cooking and recipes, and survival. Many books are waiting us for their turn to be read and savored. There's nothing quite like curling up on the couch with a good book and a warm drink on a lazy afternoon. Together, we could lose ourselves in the captivating stories of our favorite authors. I'd love to have a house with a yard someday wehere we can have a garden and a few animals.
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I have been also a stroke caregiver to my father who has been paralysed on his right side of the body because of a stroke for the past 11 years.
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Lastly, a few things about the country I live in, Albania 🇦🇱.
- Albania is a country with a unique mix of history, culture, and breathtaking landscapes. With more than 300 sunny days per year Albania is the home to some of the most stunning natural beauty in Europe. From the rugged mountains to the crystal-clear beaches, there's something here for every nature lover. And if you're looking for adventure, Albania is the place to be. We have everything from paragliding and hiking to exploring ancient ruins and discovering hidden waterfalls.
- Albanian hospitality is legendary. We don't just invite people over for dinner, we practically force-feed them until they can't move. So if you're ever feeling hungry, just come to Albania and we'll take care of you. And speaking of food, Albanian cuisine is a delicious mix of Mediterranean and Balkan flavors. In Albania, we have a saying: "Mi casa es tu casa." So, consider this a warm invitation to visit my country and experience all the beauty and hospitality that Albania has to offer.
- Did you know that the Apostle Paul traveled to Albania? In Romans 15:19 he mentions "Illyricum", what my country and the area around was called at that time.
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Wow, you've made it to the end of my theological treatise on love and marriage! Next up, you can tackle my dissertation on the eschatological implications of pineapple on pizza. 😄 Just kidding, I wouldn't subject you to that. Let's just stick to discussing our shared values over a cup of virtual coffee and be prepared for a lot of fun and memes.
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