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victorious52

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guy gets married without kissing his woman all during courtship
Posted : 13 Aug, 2012 07:46 AM

would you be ok with that? sounds spiritual but uhh what if she is a lousy kisser! do yu really want to be with a person who doesn't match up well before you get married? lol :excited:



what do you say girls?:hearts:

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Posted : 13 Aug, 2012 11:55 AM

Following that line of thinking one could argue that you wouldn't know if sex with her was going to be any good, so it's important you find out before you marry her. Unless wondering "if she's any good" ends at kissing for most, though, I doubt it.



Also, I wouldn't be completely adverse to the idea that a man wanted to stay pure until marriage and thought that kissing would lead him to want to do other things, and lose control of himself. Restraint is an admirable quality, and to me, a show of strength.

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guy gets married without kissing his woman all during courtship
Posted : 13 Aug, 2012 12:15 PM

Amen Marvel!

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guy gets married without kissing his woman all during courtship
Posted : 13 Aug, 2012 12:20 PM

Where'd you come from, dear?

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guy gets married without kissing his woman all during courtship
Posted : 13 Aug, 2012 12:25 PM

:angel: I sent you a message.

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Posted : 13 Aug, 2012 06:37 PM

Victorious52,

My Dad always taught us to respect, protect, and treat the girl you're with as if she were your best friends wife...or the Lord's prized daughter. To respect her future husband, the way you'd hope someone else would respect your future wife.

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Posted : 14 Aug, 2012 07:38 AM

We men need to have a change of mind concerning relationship.



Our focus is to much on the physical. Where our focus needs to be is in the area of Communication.



Communication is the foundation to true and genuine intimacy.



Good communication resolves conflict. It builds trust. It brings closeness.



Communication truly is the foundation of a solid relationship.



If you really think about it doesnt it make sense because we have a relationship with God because He communicated with us.



We men need to lead and foster communication. When two people are passionate in love and can communicate well together how wounderful do you think the physical relationship will be?



Because openness in the physical will lead both partners in communicating well what feels good for them. Their bodies will naturally find pleasure in eachother.



We have an added bennifit over unbelivers. We have joined spirits as the body of Christ. The spirit can communicate over large distances.



Experience is a lie.......................God made us male and female.



If a marriage has a poor physical relationship it is a sign of a poor relationship period.



And the reverse is true also. Just because a (un)married couple has a good physical relationship does not mean they have a good relationship. I would say the opposite is the case. It is evidence of a lacking relationship. A false relationship. A Lie..................



In service of Christs body,



Michael

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Posted : 14 Aug, 2012 08:04 AM

She might think you're a lousy kisser too... shouldn't change things though.

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Posted : 14 Aug, 2012 10:55 AM

Holder of Truth

I agree...



LTM...Good response.

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Posted : 14 Aug, 2012 11:03 AM

Thank you... My cousin and his wife did it. My cousin about knocked her over with that kiss too when the preacher said, "kiss the bride."

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Posted : 14 Aug, 2012 11:47 AM

:ROFL:





that is funny!

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