Author	Thread: A wifes submission, the beauty and good it brings.
Admin	A wifes submission, the beauty and good it brings. Posted : 20 Aug, 2012 03:52 AM Brothers and Sisters, We get all confused as to what submission is in the bible, right? I was just posting on a thread and I had to hit the submit button. Anyone here have to hit the submit button as well? What are we doing when we hit the submit button? We are offering freely our thoughts and feeling on a certain topic, right? It makes sense now and this has been my sucess in my relationship my with feincee. She offers her advice , opinion, feelings etc to me and because I love her I consider and listen to her submitted thoughts. Could submission be as simple as this? YES But also from a mans point validating her submitted thoughts and from her point submitting thoughts that will easily be recieved. Many times we out of our great need to be heard try to force our thoughts on another. This is not submission. Like here their are guidelines we are called to follow in comunicating. For me in my relationship I want to hear her thoughts because i love her. My problem is that she many times holds back on her thoughts because she is fearful of hurting me. She tries to protect me from her feelings. I had this problem with my previous relationship. This time I am a strong man and once she shares with me I (do not) react out of pride or feeling of rejection to her and can show her compassion and love instead. Whenever she withholds sharing with me, she limits my being able to express love to her in what she is feeling. Also God has called a mans wife to be his helper and if she holds back in submitting her thoughts how can she be his help?Being a Husbands helper is not going and doing it by your self. That breakes down unity and seperates you from oneanother. But women have to remember your words need to come to us with ((((((respect)))))))). Many times your words come in derission or in a form of a command. When you come to a man without respect you will never be heard but you will only push away the man you seek to help. Your attitude toward him is everything. This I believe is the leading cause of abuse in relationships a woman who does not know how to approace a wounded man. Women who put their men on the defense and ultimatly at war with you. Its the difference between telling ( trying to be powerful over him) or in submission( gently submitting your advice and thoughts) A angry abusive man is a man who has been belittled all of his life and his wife belittles him as well. A abusive man is so insecure and despretly needs help from a good woman, his wife. His abuse is his way to feel powerful because deep down in side he feels powerless. But he is to afraid to look at his powerlessness. If you ladies understood the motive behind abuse maybe you could be a better helper to him. Its not to late to be his helper, The helper God has called you to be... You can go to your man and ask forgiveness for your continues rejection of him and ask forgiveness for your dissrespect to him. Men you need to go to your wife and ask forgiveness for being abusive due to your insecurities and weakness. If a Husband or wife starts here, their is hope for you. If you need further help just ask me and i would love to do so. In service of Christs body, Michael Post Reply
View Profile History	A wifes submission, the beauty and good it brings. Posted : 26 Aug, 2012 06:06 AM LTM, you have been very belittling to me and others. The holier than thou thing really needs to stop. My comment about the thread ending is because your OP has been thoroughly refuted and now we are completely off topic. Only you and your wife to be are siding together. Most everyone else who has posted in here has taken the biblical view over yours. Had you wished to actually discuss the scriptures in a sincere way then I'd be all for the thread remaining open. I just haven't seen that from you and now the thread just seems to be a safe haven for personal attacks. You have been shown the error of your ways. You are not accountable for them. If you choose to ignore, you do so at your own peril....Understand? Post Reply
View Profile History	A wifes submission, the beauty and good it brings. Posted : 26 Aug, 2012 06:08 AM You are now* accountable Post Reply
View Profile History	A wifes submission, the beauty and good it brings. Posted : 26 Aug, 2012 06:09 AM Your "reaffirming" to me has been sarcasm, so please stop lying. Post Reply
View Profile History	A wifes submission, the beauty and good it brings. Posted : 26 Aug, 2012 06:12 AM First, I want to address Grace ud comment from Amos 3:3 where he thinks God gets out his appointment book and makes a appointment. Come on how silly is that. Have you ever heard to make it an apoint. Which really means an apoint to agree, right? Post Reply
View Profile History	A wifes submission, the beauty and good it brings. Posted : 26 Aug, 2012 06:17 AM "where he thinks God gets out his appointment book and makes a appointment. Come on how silly is that." Yea um....you just made this up. " Have you ever heard to make it an apoint. Which really means an apoint to agree, right?" I thought you were going to address Amos 3:3... Post Reply
Apostelle View Profile History	A wifes submission, the beauty and good it brings. Posted : 26 Aug, 2012 06:17 AM MoichePit is correct. The best way to stop this thread is for all of us to stop posting comments. This will be my last one on this thread. By commenting, all we are doing is giving him attention...which is what he desires most. Im done giving him that. God bless you all. Post Reply
Apostelle View Profile History	A wifes submission, the beauty and good it brings. Posted : 26 Aug, 2012 06:20 AM MoichePit is correct. The best way to stop this thread is for all of us to stop posting comments. This will be my last one on this thread. By commenting, all we are doing is giving him attention...which is what he desires most. Im done giving him that. God bless you all. Post Reply
View Profile History	A wifes submission, the beauty and good it brings. Posted : 26 Aug, 2012 06:22 AM It's hard to stop when he lies about you haha. It makes you desire to correct the lies :) I don't want play into his ego anymore as it seems that's all it's really about anyway. You are right Apostelle. I am done here as well. Let the lies continue. My post history in this thread bears witness and only fools will believe the lies. I'm out Post Reply
Moichepit View Profile History	A wifes submission, the beauty and good it brings. Posted : 26 Aug, 2012 06:25 AM LetThisMind... I am not saying this because of your thread, but because of what you last wrote to Grace... LET IT GO! Keep going on this if you so wish, it is your thread. But don't be surprised if you no longer see anyone respond. Because of your last comment... THAT WAS THE STICK THAT BROKE THE CAMELS BACK. If ever there was a time to practice humility and LOVE towards your fellow man. IT'S NOW!! Proverbs 17:28 Even a fool is thought wise if he keeps silent, and discerning if he holds his tongue. I still love you. Post Reply
Moichepit View Profile History	A wifes submission, the beauty and good it brings. Posted : 26 Aug, 2012 06:41 AM Guys... For all the RESPECT and ADMIRATION we WOMEN here learned to have for you, please, I beg of you in the name of the love you have for the Lord our God; No more after this comment. If you all agree... Just send me a smiley. :glow: Post Reply

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