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Posted : 25 Oct, 2011 02:34 PM

I'm curious to see how everyone deals with their desire to have a family. Sometimes it seems that there is more pressure to have children than even find the *right* mate.



So my questions are:

1.) Do you 'settle' in looking for a mate - to have a family sooner.

2.) Do you consider adopting or IVF and have kids on your own?

3.) What helps settle your *time clock* nerves?



I must say that this is a theory statement only, something of curiousity. :)

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cowgirl1984

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Posted : 16 Nov, 2011 03:50 PM

1) No. I will never settle. Too many bad dating/relationship experiences to even consider settling now.



2) Yes, but not out of desperation to have children. It has been on my heart and mind to adopt since I was only a child myself. I think one parent is better than no parent, so if I were in a place (solid income, stable home, etc) where I could reasonably support a child, I would adopt regardless of my marital status. But just IHeartDogs, not in the diaper stage! :laugh: Partly because I'm not a "baby" person (other than my nieces and nephew of course!) and partly because the older ones are the ones who need homes the most because they are least likely to find one.



3) I don't have any "time clock" nerves because I do not wish to have children via the natural method. I want to adopt. And since I am fine doing that alone, I'm in no rush to get married just to have kids.

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Posted : 16 Nov, 2011 03:51 PM

*But just LIKE IHeartDogs, not just IHeartDogs

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