Author	Thread: Is it just me or ... ???
Admin	Is it just me or ... ??? Posted : 11 May, 2013 09:52 PM I'm not the best looking guy in every room I enter but I have NEVER had trouble with women. I have never had so much trouble in my life. I want to be positive and not take it personal but I just don't get it. I'm also registered on another site for which you must pay. I registered about 4 weeks ago. I said hi to about 50 different new women and every single one read my email, looked at my profile and ignored me. It says exactly the same stuff as I do on here so ... I'm wondering if some ladies can check me out and tell me if I'm doing something wrong. I've never thought of myself as ugly but this is, honestly, a blow to the old ego. I'm not mad or anything I'm just really confused. Is my height? Looks? What I put in my introduction? I'm at a loss. Anyway, hope someone can help. I'f I'm doing something wrong let me know. I won't get mad or anything. Post Reply
View Profile History	Is it just me or ... ??? Posted : 17 May, 2013 05:15 PM Yes, God loves you and just trust Him.......Great advice! Post Reply
View Profile History	Is it just me or ... ??? Posted : 18 May, 2013 04:51 PM You sound desperate in my opinion. slow down bro, focus on God, your life, then she'll come. Post Reply
View Profile History	Is it just me or ... ??? Posted : 19 May, 2013 01:51 AM Desperate? I made it perfectly clear I'm frustrated and confused. How does desperation play into this? Here are your dictionary definitions of desperate ... 1. reckless or dangerous because of despair or urgency: a desperate killer. 2. having an urgent need, desire, etc.: desperate for attention. 3. leaving little or no hope; very serious or dangerous: a desperate illness. 4. extremely bad; intolerable or shocking: clothes in desperate taste. 5. extreme or excessive. 1. There's no danger or urgency. 2. There's no desire or need. 3. I do not indicate the absence of hope. 4. If you think I'm intolerable that's on you. 5. Extreme or excessive ... no. I'm simply stating that I've had unnatural trouble meeting someone and was looking for some advice from a WOMAN to maybe point out what *I'm* doing wrong. This indicates that I am looking inward as opposed to outward. Instead of being extreme and intolerable and blaming my misfortune on all women I'm saying "Hey ... maybe I'm doing something wrong. Maybe *I* need to make a change" AND I'm asking for help with that. Don't take this defense as my being mad or upset ... I'm simply making the point that your assumption is a product of your own projection. I'm not yelling at or scolding you but you are, in fact, wrong. You sound judgmental and irrational. Now that is an appropriate and accurate assessment of your post. Try not to let my words offend as the truth often tends to do. The Word is pretty clear about how we believers should NOT be easily offended and as I have not insulted you there should be no offense. Finally ... I do recognize clearly that, technically, you're trying to help. Thanks for that. I had a great conversation with a man of God today that really got me focused back on to what I needed to be focused on all along ... like you said ... God. In that, you were absolutely right. I've lost a portion of my relationship with Him. Too busy, too lazy and too distracted. All that really matters is my relationship with Him and on that I now focus. Post Reply
View Profile History	Is it just me or ... ??? Posted : 19 May, 2013 04:09 AM "All that really matters is my relationship with Him and on that I now focus." This is not actually true either. Yes, God wants us to have our focus upon Him and alow Him to be the Lord over our lives. That is not the only thing that matters because that is not the only thing that matters to God. That is the life of a monk. People and relationships matter to God and our having relationships matter to God. Our physical provision matters to God. It is knowing how to have the proper ballance on things. I used to use my influence to attract women to self. Once I began to use my influence of women to attract their hearts to God things turned around for me. It was then when the world of love opened up to me. You see I was placing my needs before God and using God as a manipulator for personal gain. Not saying you are doing this. Just a bit of personal testimony. God wants us to enjoy Him first then He gives all things for us to enjoy after. God delights in giving good gifts to His children and a wife or husband is one. Peace in Christ, Michael Post Reply
View Profile History	Is it just me or ... ??? Posted : 19 May, 2013 06:47 AM welcome! Post Reply
View Profile History	Is it just me or ... ??? Posted : 19 May, 2013 07:42 AM Life of a monk, I wasn't trying to imply there Micheal. I think God wants him first before anything else in this world, so I don't think it's about being manipulative to gain anything. God wants us to show something. If don't have a good relationship with him, how are going to show our future spouse that we can spend our relationship with her or him. The devil hates when a man and woman are together, especially when we put Christ in the center of the relationship. That's I've been emphasizing the majority of my posts. My past relationships has taught me to listen to God, right now I'm focusing my life on him, enjoying myself, yes making good friends, and when God tells me that he has someone for me, I will abide to his call. If he wants me to be like Paul, thy will be done. Post Reply
View Profile History	Is it just me or ... ??? Posted : 19 May, 2013 11:40 AM Yes I was simply implying that if I focus on my relationship with God everything else will fall into place. Of course other things matter, my daughter is my life. My job is important. My bills are paid. However, if my relationship with God isn't solid neither will any other of my relationships be solid. I do appreciate your input. Post Reply
View Profile History	Is it just me or ... ??? Posted : 19 May, 2013 04:04 PM you don't need all the women to say hi to you, you only need the right one to say hi and as long as MRS right hasn't said hi to you, don't worry about the 50 that doesn't reply your messagge. truth be told, I'm not sure you reply every message you get from ladies. so you're among some other lady's "no-reply-from guys" list. stay happy bro! Post Reply
DontHitThatMark View Profile History	Is it just me or ... ??? Posted : 20 May, 2013 10:17 AM Online, all of this is an entirely different beast, and be aware that just about every female on these sites is being bombarded with a lot of messages and potential partners. Most women on the sites seem to have developed the slightly rude approach to ignore anyone that they don't particular like, which is really annoying, but I supposed we'll just have to deal with it. Just don't take it personally, that's about the only advice there is. :peace::peace: Post Reply
View Profile History	Is it just me or ... ??? Posted : 20 May, 2013 10:36 AM The last two posts, hmmm, some points that I do agree but I've emphasizing something in the majority of my posts. Why do relationships truly fail, especially here in the U.S.? Lack of communication. We do get bombarded with a ton of messages here but there must me a reason why we signed up here in the first place right? I do understand people are busy here however, i know people when they read the message and do not respond. A simple yes or not interested comes a long way. There is also a polite i'm not interested button on this site so why not utilize it? Good communication skills starts right here, otherwise don't even bother of getting into relationship. Post Reply

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