Author	Thread: Sisters, what would you do.....hypothecially?
Hisjoymypeace View Profile History	Sisters, what would you do.....hypothecially? Posted : 11 Aug, 2014 06:01 PM You started corresponding with two wonderful brothers in Christ. One has made his intentions perfectly clear and wants you to commit only to chatting with him, until you both meet in person. The situation though is this.....this brother was honest from the start, stating that he has a 3 year time frame as to when he would able to be in a better financial position to support a wife and family. But the reality is, you are very attracted to his love for God and ministry, his wit, charm and infectious smile! Now the second brother.....God fearing, ministry minded, intelligent, educated, witty and self made financially, knows about the first brother but has resolved to woe you, despite the competition! His philosophy is, "who God has for him, is for him!" You honestly enjoy your conversations with him and hey, what women doesn't want security, though not the main focus in finding God's best! Would you honor the first brothers request, corresponding only with him and if you did how and what would you say to the other brother? Just asking..... Post Reply
View Profile History	Sisters, what would you do.....hypothecially? Posted : 2 Oct, 2014 09:08 PM I'd go for the second one. You obviously like them somewhat equally. Let's put aside the finances. Based on your description, #2 knows what he wants..and he wants you. He seems to be very eager to be with you no matter what. #1, on the other hand, obviously likes u too. However, his approach seems a bit too possessive, insecure and conditional. Some women may actually like being told not to talk to other guys. It seems sweet occasionally. But what he is asking of you is not just your freedom. He is also asking for your precious time during the process. It seems like his desire for u is conditional. He said in 3 years, he will be financially ready. What if not? Would his desire for a family and for having u change? With #2, he's taking a leap of faith. :glow: Post Reply

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