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Cuzzie1 View Profile History	How to spot a potential husband. Posted : 30 Oct, 2025 08:24 PM My thoughts are pretty simple. You will know them by their fruits. A good man should exude the fruits of the spirit. love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. Lead with humility, love sacrificialy, trustworthy and of good character. To be honest when I look at that list I know I got work to do. Prolly one reason I'm still single😀 Is there anything I missed? Ladies only please. I already know and have heard from a guy's perspective. Post Reply
Cuzzie1 View Profile History	How to spot a potential husband. Posted : 3 Nov, 2025 06:10 PM Thankyou for your thoughts Moonlight, free2be and Jayzee. Post Reply
Moonlight7Lady View Profile History	How to spot a potential husband. Posted : 4 Nov, 2025 10:35 AM Cuzzie1 You're welcome! Post Reply
Handyman62 View Profile History	How to spot a potential husband. Posted : 12 Nov, 2025 09:39 AM The thoughtless thanking the thoughtless. Post Reply
Moonlight7Lady View Profile History	How to spot a potential husband. Posted : 29 Nov, 2025 09:02 AM Men that verbally abuse any Women is definately not called by God to teach the Bible to anyone. Christian men that Respect God's teaching does not verbally abuse Women. Then he in his ignorance goes on a Dating site. Seems he needs to know what the Bible actually Teaches. In his Spiritual ignorance. ASK a Girl is not for bitter men who speak against Women. Post Reply
Handyman62 View Profile History	How to spot a potential husband. Posted : 29 Dec, 2025 12:14 PM Pea You! There it is again. Why is it the stench has to spread it's odor so far and wide? It's obviously done on purpose but why does a stench feel like anyone wants to deal with the odor? The odor that is spewed isn't Godly or scriptural. It's from Satan and distributed through the dark side of the moon. Post Reply

Cuzzie1 View Profile History	How to spot a potential husband. Posted : 5 Jan, 2026 01:36 AM Thoughtless thanking ithe thoughtless. I assume that means me since I was the one thanking them for their thoughts. Last time I checked seeking to have the fruit of the spirit, leading with love,humility and seeking to be of good character were actually biblical traits not thoughtless ones. Traits that Jesus himself showed when he was with us. If that makes me thoughtless to believe that then so be it. Post Reply
Handyman62 View Profile History	How to spot a potential husband. Posted : 5 Jan, 2026 04:15 AM Yes I did mean you because you are complimenting women who exude the fruit of beelzebub. I've watched these "christian women" for years and never seen them embrace what God has written about how women should act. It's always how men should appear and act without looking at their own lack of being a scriptural woman. So far every woman who has posted on here follows a watered down by feminism version of the Bible. Anything scriptures that points out their bad behavior is ignored and the rest is like a smorgasbord where they pick and choose what to follow. You think after destroying your own marriages and families because you embraced feminism that real Christian men are supposed to accept to accept all of you while you still continue to embrace those feminist ideals? The days of finding men that will accept you for the feminist you are is rapidly diminishing. More and more Christian and non christian men are walking away from the majority of westernized culture. Modern men made the mistake of giving women what they wanted and they all turned and bit the hand of the men that fed them. You women have become to blind to see what you have done and are now beginning to reap the harvest of it. But you refuse to see or hear it because Satan has your attention and all your eyes are on him. He's leading you into destruction and you don't even know it. You all should be feeling guilty for many of the things you've done and are doing. If you don't then it may already be to late. If you do still have some guilt then you need to repent to God and then go back to your husband and beg his forgiveness and try and undo what you did. You need to go against feminism by studying these scriptures and putting them into practice. Don't worry about what the man/husband is doing. Just do your part and the rest will fall into place: “Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the savior of the body.” (Eph 5:22-23) “Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as it is fit in the Lord.” (Col 3:18) “Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands.” (I Pet 3:1) “Neither was the man created for the woman; but the woman for the man.” (I Cor 11:9) Post Reply
freetobe View Profile History	How to spot a potential husband. Posted : 6 Jan, 2026 08:35 AM Funny you are still in Ask Women 😆 Clearly not over your wife leaving. Bet you regret the way you treated her. Clear why she left. Clear she will not be returning. Posting scripture to women that are strangers but never "husbands love your wives". It's good for men to see what not to do and women to see what kind of man to not get involved with. Rage on old man. Post Reply
Cuzzie1 View Profile History	How to spot a potential husband. Posted : 6 Jan, 2026 10:41 PM Firstly I didn't compliment anyone. I simply thanked them for their thoughts. There is a difference. Now let me highlight why I thanked them. I asked if there was anything they thought I could add to the things I mentioned.. Moonlight mentioned mutual respect.. free2be mentioned communication... jayzee mentioned taking time to get to know someone..all points worth considering and all consistent with the question I asked, and none of those points unbiblical. Therefore I have no problem thanking them for their input regardless of whether I agree with them or not on other topics because this was specifically about what I was asking here not about anything else. Their answers, unlike some, were on topic, and answered the question I posed and I Thank them for that. Post Reply
Handyman62 View Profile History	How to spot a potential husband. Posted : 7 Jan, 2026 01:37 PM No man ever truly gets over a woman he loved and adored for 28 years. But the fact that Freetobe and most women can so easily monkey branch to another man highlights just who are the ones who can truly love and the ones who can't and you like most women don't understand that kind of love because you're incapable of it. However it's very natural for women to easily be able to shift from one man to another. Back in the day when towns and villages were attacked by a superior force where all the men would be wiped out and the women and children were one of the things taken as a prize and if a woman wanted to survive she would have to adapt to a new male master which they readily did. And Men naturally want to have multiple wives so they can have as many children as possible to be able to quickly replenish the men lost in battle, or work the land and God allowed that behavior even though he classified it as sin. God gave men an extremely strong desire to love and protect their family even if it meant their own death to save them. That's love, the same kind of love Jesus had when he gave his life on the cross for all of us. We haven't needed women to monkey branch and men to have babies with multiple women for a few hundred years. But men are the only one expected to change their natural self and women exclude themselves from change. Now women attempt to monkey branch because feminism tells them to. It lies about both men and women's role in the relationship. It tells women to leave marriages for petty reasons and they readily comply. It tells them they're equal to or better than men in every way. It tells them marriages are 50/50 except in God's word there are no examples of a 50/50 marriage. In Fact the Bible says marriages are a hierarchy and the wives are to be in submission to the husband so anything less than that is likely to fail and is the exact reason for most marriage failures. But women who listen to feminism include those who claim to be Christian gulp up feminism like a newborn latched to her mothers chest. They drink it like it's their only nourishment ignoring what the Bible says because they don't like the taste of God's word. They pick and choose which parts of God's word they will drink and if it goes against feminism they reject it. When a man points out they're wrong they spit his words back at him while trying to insult his manhood. But it doesn't work because they long ago forgot what a real man is so their words fall flat. Their words are like those of a spoiled child caught with her hand in the cookie jar. They also like to huddle together in a corner filling each other's heads with female nonsense waiting to confront an unsuspecting man who said something they didn't like. And then one or more will pounce, spewing a word salad of nonsense with some trying again to insult the man. But they just end up looking foolish. Satan through feminism has a stranglehold on all women and it's a self imposed one. What they should be doing is plainly spelled out in the scriptures and would put them in their rightful place. But they don't want to be there because they've become greedy. Satan has convinced them they can have it all, but they can't because God didn't build them to the same standard as men. Men can take the slings and arrows of life, not women. So rules have to be changed for women to compete which really isn't competing at all, it is cheating. Women know this but don't care because feminism tells them they deserve special treatment and most men are happy to give it to them. But most women don't appreciate what men do for them because they have an entitlement mentality. In other words they act like spoiled children. Post Reply