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Posted : 11 Apr, 2010 12:27 PM

what's a question a girl will actually respond to? it seems like all the ones i approach don't want to talk about anything or give me a chance.

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Posted : 11 Apr, 2010 05:19 PM

Hey guys,



Maybe it's my advanced age, but I don't want a guy to try to come up with anything original or feed me a line. I prefer for a man to come to me honest and forthright. I'm looking for a man of integrity and character. But again, that's why I said it depends on the woman.

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Posted : 12 Apr, 2010 01:02 PM

I agree with babygirl.



Be very careful with the smart lines and mysterious openings. Women are very much, but very much afraid of being tricked.



The first thing you should acquire is TRUST. Before anything else you must "prove" to be trustworthy.



Also, do not give the impression that you are mailing half the community here, as women most certainly will think that you are not serious or worse, use them as excercise for the real deal.



A woman who is mature, will certainly answer your post. You may not like what she has to say but she will reply.

Inmature women are very insecure and can actually spent sleepless nights over how on earth they are going to say to you that they are not interested (if they were they would have replied). Women are very scared to hurt. They really hate it, that they have attracted you and that it is not mutual. Mostly the non-response is an act of incompetence.



It is not for nothing that the CDFF has a standard non-matching post offered as a tool to cope with those dilemmas. But that message should be edited severly I think....



Anyway, too slow, too fast, weird replies, no reply at all...

it seems to be all part of the love and life of an onliner on CDFF.

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Posted : 12 Apr, 2010 06:04 PM

Remp - no worries on the Sunday School teacher comment.



I can tell you two things to NEVER (in my opinion) say:

1) You are the first lady I've sent a message to!



2) I was immediately captured by your (fill in the blank)! Your (fill in the blank) are so beautiful! I just know God has a plan for the two of us!

Ug. Spare me.

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Posted : 14 Apr, 2010 08:52 PM

I am much more likely to answer specific questions. Like about my job, or church or weather. I look at it like playing tennis, you are supposed to hit the ball back and forth across the net. Ask a safe question and see is she responds back.

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