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PnwFaith

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Returning messages?
Posted : 29 Apr, 2010 03:50 PM

I'm just curious to get a woman's perspective on this. Sent a couple messages back and forth with someone here. Nothing serious, just getting to know each others interests and what the other is looking for. Days go by, last msg I sent was read and no response. I'm not sure I get this. Does this mean that you've lost interest? It's just a little confusing to me. If this was an indication that someone had lost interest why would they not just be polite and say so?

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GraceMae

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Posted : 30 Apr, 2010 09:22 PM

Remp... I agree with your thoughts. I have experienced this also PnW. As you said too, when it's the other person who contacts you first and initiates the desire to want to get to know you, then after awhile.... poof. I'd feel better if the person just told me, they were no longer interested, or had someone else, or just too busy to continue communicating with me... just a reply back would be very relieving, respectful, and courteous. ~ GraceMae

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Tulip89

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Posted : 30 Apr, 2010 11:27 PM

Maybe I'm crazy, but it really doesn't bother me if the girl doesn't write back. It's an easy way to tell she's not interested.

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PnwFaith

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Posted : 5 Aug, 2010 12:43 AM

I kinda let this topic go the last few months, but it is still happening here and there. I'm really not understanding why people just drop off the conversation. I specifically state that I am not looking to date right now on my profile. I get contacted anyway and it seems feelings get hurt when I don't act interested. I try to be polite and answer questions and talk back and forth, but as soon as I make it clear that I'm not dating right now they just disappear. "???"

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