Author	Thread: age limits
Admin	age limits Posted : 28 May, 2010 10:37 AM Okay I missed another girl by two years.i wish people would stop being so picky with the age limitations.people age physically at different rates according to general health,genetics ect. Ive seen women in there 50s who look like there 30 and vice-versa...........Oh well just venting In Christ steve Post Reply
View Profile History	age limits Posted : 29 May, 2010 11:07 AM True dat, Eliza. But some are not here for fellowship. The Word says we are love but we don't have 2 know everyone. The bottom line is everyone has their restrictions there 4 a reason. There are hundreds of people here and on other sites. Keep moving til u find your match. Post Reply
Rabbit32 View Profile History	age limits Posted : 29 May, 2010 11:59 AM but more often than not alot of reasons arent well thought out. Post Reply
View Profile History	age limits Posted : 29 May, 2010 12:14 PM all i see is complaining. who are you to say that the reasons are not well thought out? classic example of a guy trying to fix a girl instead of just keeping it moving. 1babygirl you are the truth on this topic:waving: guys if you want a hobby try woodworking or something:ribbit: Post Reply
View Profile History	age limits Posted : 29 May, 2010 12:47 PM ok. that probably sounded a little harsh, tactless at the least. i still mean it, just not in an offensive way. Post Reply
View Profile History	age limits Posted : 29 May, 2010 02:04 PM Nyanda, sometimes what sounds harsh sometimes is just a hard truth. It bothers me a little when I hear people try to make people do what they want them to do. No one owes you a profile that you approve of. No one owes you a profile picture that lets you see everything that you want to see. No one is responsible for the frustration that you may have because this venue isn't working out the way you thought it would. You can not start making demands on people that satisfies your own needs. Well, you can, but you shouldn't. Post Reply
View Profile History	age limits Posted : 29 May, 2010 03:36 PM No I really wouldn't steal her.You live to far away, so would she.:ROFL: Post Reply
Rabbit32 View Profile History	age limits Posted : 30 May, 2010 12:01 AM No one is trying to make ya'll do ne thing, if a woman dont wanna at least investigate who I am because of my age thats her loss, and it shows she probaly is not a what I am looking for, but it would be a shame to miss a blessing. For instance many people overlook Christ because they wont accept Christ because He dosnt fit their perceptions, or prefernce, and they miss out on the biggest blessing ever!!! Not saying Im Gods gift to women, however I know who I am in Christ, I know what I have to offer, and I know there isnt very many llike me at ALL, because I have searched for them and they are rare. Post Reply
View Profile History	age limits Posted : 30 May, 2010 08:23 AM she would be missing a blessing? what's it to you? how thinly do you intend to spread yourself? people do not overlook Christ for those reasons, it is because they do not want to be held accountable to a higher authority or have been so deeply hurt that they just do not know how. what your saying is nothing but a manipulation and a justification of why someone you want does not want you. get over it. i'm glad you know who you are in Christ... but what are you doing searching for men like yourself? is it to further justify yourself? aren't you supposed to be about your father's business? i emplore you to read 1thess 4:11 "and that ye study to be quiet, and to do your own business, and to work with your own hands, as we commanded you:" in my time on this earth i have come to realize that all men are the same. they all want that one girl who completes them. they will be with a girl who they know they do not love for however long it takes to find that girl they do want. and when they do, boom, gone. because men do not like to be alone. did you read what you just said? pride goes before the destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall. your not all that:rolleyes: the bible tells us not to think more highly of ourselves than we are, you are in violation. you would argue that i do not know you, but i would tell you that a person's character is revealed as much by the things they do not say as the things which they do. i hope you check yourself before someone else does because it would not be pretty. and you DO think you are God's gift to women because you described yourself as rare. now who told you that? huh? please remember that the devil is a liar and you should not believe a word he says. i think your a closet chauvinist and i am being very kind with my words. just get over yourself, you are not all that.:rolleyes::rolleyes: Post Reply
View Profile History	age limits Posted : 30 May, 2010 04:00 PM Way I look at it, I don't want anyone too terribly younger but I'd date an 18 year old, who knows? I also would probably date someone 25-26 even though I'm a little shy of a week to turning 22, but I don't want to date anyone older. If you get any further in any direction, you face different social and life problems, and some of those I'm not ready to face just yet, and some I'm completely done with. I may want to message someone who is 24 but doesn't want to date anyone less than 23 because she thinks of them as the cutoff for whatever her reasons may be. So I can't message her. My point? I shrug it off, say alright then, and move on. I'm not about to go switching around my age and everything just to message one silly girl, I know what I am looking for, no sense wasting time and energy on someone who doesn't want anything to do with you anyway. Here's some other great advice for men and women-hang out with you acquaintances more often. Network to meet people, and a mate will appear like magic :) Post Reply
Rabbit32 View Profile History	age limits Posted : 30 May, 2010 04:14 PM Nyanda to answer your questions, yes she would, and i want to bless her. Its not manipulation, or justifying anything, I want men like myself so I can be friends with them, for they make good brothers in Christ. I never said I was all that, apart from Christ I am nothing. I am busy doing my thing, but it would behoove you to consider the whole council of God. And your right you dont know me at all. When I said I am rare it was a stament of fact, how many single fathers do you know that are raiseing three kids, going to school, and working with no help (other than from God) do you know. And that is just the symptom of whats inside me. Harsh words wont change anything, Proverbs 15:1 A gentle answer deflects anger, harsh words make tempers flare. even if i was in "violation" or in error, and if your being kind with your words, than I would say you have spoken foolishly verse 2 says The tongue of the wise makes knowledge appealing but the mousth of the fool belches out foolishness. If you thought you were helping me by calling me names, and tearing down my character you are wrong, if you wanted to correct me than perhaps you should consider this: 1 John 5:16 If you see a Christian brother or sister sinning in a way that does not lead to death, you should pray, and God will give that person life.... Col 3:12-17 12 Since God chose you to be the holy people he loves, you must clothe yourselves with tenderhearted mercy, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience. 13 Make allowance for each other�s faults, and forgive anyone who offends you. Remember, the Lord forgave you, so you must forgive others. 14 Above all, clothe yourselves with love, which binds us all together in perfect harmony. 15 And let the peace that comes from Christ rule in your hearts. For as members of one body you are called to live in peace. And always be thankful. 16 Let the message about Christ, in all its richness, fill your lives. Teach and counsel each other with all the wisdom he gives. Sing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs to God with thankful hearts. 17 And whatever you do or say, do it as a representative of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks through him to God the Father. Instead of corecting me, and putiing me in my place, now there is descension :stop: Post Reply

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