Author	Thread: what gets a girl's attention more a wink or a message?
livetheword View Profile History	what gets a girl's attention more a wink or a message? Posted : 6 Jul, 2010 07:54 PM ok so.. ive been going thru profiles and finding many of u young ladys to be nice, intelegent , and with a love of the lord. so my question is: which gets ur attention more ? a wink or a polite message introduing myself and a simple " how u doing . u seem like a awsome girl " please let me know . and if u an also let me know how u respond to each of these ( with a wink do u just veiw the page and see if he has the courage to send a message or do u send a wink back or do u send a message to him if ur intrestid?) thanks :waving: Post Reply
LincolnAdams View Profile History	what gets a girl's attention more a wink or a message? Posted : 7 Jul, 2010 04:43 PM @Nyanda: Simple, I was a man, that was enough. :winksmile: Let's be honest, women look for men who can provide financial security (who are a certain height) . There's nothing inherently wrong with that, the only thing that irks me is when women accuse men of being shallow because we prefer a certain look. Yawn. if what gets a girl's attention is how tall I am or how much money I make, all wel land good, but don't whine if I prefer to only date curvy doe-eyed babes. :winksmile: Post Reply
springrose10 View Profile History	what gets a girl's attention more a wink or a message? Posted : 7 Jul, 2010 09:17 PM Hi Live, It's pretty much consensus that the ladies don't take winks very seriously, because it is perceived that the men sending them aren't serious. Send a message, but not one that is sarcastic, insulting, or "cheeseball" immature. You could become Father Time while you're waiting for a response. Blessings, Rose Post Reply
View Profile History	what gets a girl's attention more a wink or a message? Posted : 10 Jul, 2010 05:14 PM In my case... i prefer both! Post Reply
Bridgit View Profile History	what gets a girl's attention more a wink or a message? Posted : 12 Jul, 2010 02:38 PM Yes, I too prefer a message. I strongly believe a relationship cannot be strong and meaningful without open and honest communication between both parties. One can learn a lot from another person by listening carefully (not just hearing). Post Reply
View Profile History	what gets a girl's attention more a wink or a message? Posted : 12 Jul, 2010 10:02 PM I like both but i have to agree with all the rest of the ladies a message is a lot better then a wink. Post Reply
View Profile History	what gets a girl's attention more a wink or a message? Posted : 15 Jul, 2010 07:41 AM The most I'd do after receiving a wink is winking back. Or I'd just ignore it. As other girls here said, a message is better. Don't be lazy, if you are really interested, do write. But please, not "how ya doin"... Post Reply
View Profile History	what gets a girl's attention more a wink or a message? Posted : 18 Aug, 2010 08:42 PM A message would get my attention more than a wink -- because, as mentioned before, winks are hard to interpret. I will, however, respond to both winks and messages - even if I'm not interested. If someone takes the time to contact me, the least I can do is acknowledge that, and let them know if I'd like to continue corresponding or not. In my opinion, it's too bad this isn't the norm on dating sites. Post Reply

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