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Posted : 7 Jul, 2010 06:19 PM

I am thinking of leaving this site. I have not had alot of luck and it seems that anyone I have managed to make contact with has fallen off the face of the earth. And anyone else that i try to make contact with (doesnt matter if it is a wink or message) they usually do not respond. To be honest, it is very discouraging and I am not sure what to do.



I figure that this is all happening because of one of two things: 1. God doesnt want me talking to anyone because of current things in my life which will only interfere, or 2. i either try to hard/or am just not like-able.



I dunno. I guess that I am just depressed with all of this. I would like to find someone, I am very lonely, but when things do not work out, well, what are you going to do? You cant just shrug it off like it is nothing. It doesnt matter if it is the first reason I mentioned, Im human.



I guess I am looking for advice, maybe comfort. I dunno. I guess that I just wanted to say something and be done with it.

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Posted : 8 Jul, 2010 05:30 PM

Ok...I don't know what other people have experienced. When I was on here I had the same thing happen to me with girls not replying. I finally gave up sending messages, but I was still getting lots of winks and emails from girls until I got one from the girl I've been in a relationship with for a year. I don't know what to tell you besides "it is possible". You seem to be at least interesting, and kind of a walking contradiction with the nerdy jock thing going on. So maybe you need a different perspective or more patience or something...I don't know. Good luck with whatever you decide. My view of this site was "who cares, it's not costing me anything and I only have to check it every couple days...why leave?" and it worked out for me. I'd say "stick around".





:peace::peace:

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Posted : 11 Jul, 2010 06:08 PM

I think I am going to stick around. Things have gotten a little better. I guess I was just frustrated and I needed to vent a little bit. This gets so frustrating at times. God has reminded me of some things though, so I think all will be OK. Thank you all again for the advice and help!

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Posted : 11 Jul, 2010 09:23 PM

:rocknroll:

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Posted : 12 Jul, 2010 02:14 PM

Hi noghrit!



The way I see it is that you should not be in a hurry. You want to make sure you find the one who will truly love you. It is possible that you will not meet her here but in person or on another site. A lot of people on dating sites are looking for the moon, the perfect person (which does not exist).



Be sure that there is nothing wrong with you. God has a special lady in mind for you. Wait for her, it will be worth it!

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Posted : 14 Jul, 2010 10:04 PM

well, due to extenuating circumstances, I will be leaving this site by week's end. There is nothing left for me here. I need the break, and I doubt that I will be back. Thank you all again for the advice and support.

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