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How am I supposed to know?
Posted : 28 Oct, 2010 09:50 PM

So I'm new to this whole thing. There is one girl that I have been messaging with, but how am I supposed to know if she's interested or just making polite conversation?

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Posted : 29 Oct, 2010 08:09 AM

@2sparrows

:ROFL::ROFL::ROFL:

Maybe you should give some advice on how to do that. :ROFL:

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Posted : 29 Oct, 2010 08:31 AM

One can, BTW, create a Gmail account with bogus info. You can then use their chat software to do an audio or video conference without giving away personal information.

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Posted : 29 Oct, 2010 08:35 AM

Great tips. Twosparrows, you are wise indeed. I'll definately try asking her for skype the next time we talk.

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Posted : 29 Oct, 2010 01:26 PM

I agree with what Godslamb was saying in regards to being honest and asking her. But I think that it is very important to let her know that when she feels safe and confident, that the IM is available to her and the relationship. Put her feelings first, and trust in God. If it is to be, it will be!

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Posted : 29 Oct, 2010 04:08 PM

2sparrows: why do i get the impression your comparing women to horses???:laugh:

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Posted : 29 Oct, 2010 06:24 PM

River girl -- you are so smart :laugh:

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Posted : 29 Oct, 2010 06:51 PM

:dancingp:

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Posted : 29 Oct, 2010 07:41 PM

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@Godslamb

If you all knew how I felt about horses you would know what a great compliment that is.

Seriously ; animals and people have alot in common. Some of the best lessons about life and God have been taught to me by the Holy Spirit using horses and dogs.



But it is true ; you've got me; there is nothing better than big brown eyes and a hip in horses and women!

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Posted : 30 Oct, 2010 03:31 PM

I'd personally just go to her church, say your prayers, sing the hymns, perhaps say hello and that you'll speak to her again online. You'll soon know if she's freaked out.

If the church is too far away look at it that you'll save on travelling if you don't hit it off.

Don't assume that Christian women can't cause you any problems, the ones that say no are always trouble free regardless.

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Posted : 30 Oct, 2010 07:22 PM

I suggest providing your contact info first...something like, I've enjoyed 'chatting' with you on this forum. Maybe we can talk on the phone...here's my number...give me a call when you feel comfortable. In the mean time, I'd like to keep this line of communication open.



Keep sending messages and don't pressure her for a phone call. If she's interested, she'll call eventually.



If she runs, she wasn't who God had in mind for you.

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