Author	Thread: SECRETS in the CLOSET
HolyGhostGirl View Profile History	SECRETS in the CLOSET Posted : 16 Apr, 2011 09:01 AM Ladies.... If we're supposed to be sisters in Christ, we should be like family. We should look out for one another and not be critical. So look...don't judge me for what I'm about to ask. The only difference from me and most others is I'm bold enough to say what they think. With that said... Is pleasuring oneself wrong? Please read between the lines here because I don't think I can type the M word. If it is wrong, what do you single ladies do on those lonely nights where you may feel vulnerable? And don't get all cute on me and act like I'm the only one who has questions and goes through this! Thanks! Post Reply
View Profile History	SECRETS in the CLOSET Posted : 16 Apr, 2011 12:43 PM I think the Bible does prescribe a way to deal with the problem of temptation and desire. 1 Corinthians 7:8-9 (KJV) 8 I say therefore to the unmarried and widows, It is good for them if they abide even as I. 9 But if they cannot contain, let them marry: for it is better to marry than to burn. I realize that many are here looking for marriage, but I think that many people here are not doing what it takes to find someone. It is easier to take care of your own desires than to work at doing what we need to find a good husband of wife. Post Reply
View Profile History	SECRETS in the CLOSET Posted : 16 Apr, 2011 01:00 PM Some of these personal questions you ask in this Christian site, I feel is not the place. Maybe a private message to some of the girls would be better. That's my opinion. Post Reply
View Profile History	SECRETS in the CLOSET Posted : 16 Apr, 2011 01:03 PM I posted this on the guys side as well, This is something I posted on CDFF several years ago, but it has to do with this subject, Is mast ur bation a sin? This is a very serious issue that I have had to deal with in "children" within group homes who have been sexually molested. A family member sexually molested one of my own children when he was 8 years old. Afterwards he was forced to struggle with the temptation to stimulate himself in this way. I was forced to come to know the �truth� in this particular struggle, so that my son could be set free from what he'd been exposed to. Many children who have been molested become addicted to mast ur bating, but often, they do not continue to associate "sexual" or "adulterous" thoughts along with the physical sensation of being stimulated in this way. Therefore in these cases I do not believe that these children are committing the sin of "adultery" in their hearts. This would apply to adults as well. At the same time, I do not believe that mast ur bation is completely harmless. Sex is simply the �sign� of love, love being the reality. The essence of sexual adultery is the separation of the sign (sex) from its reality (love). When this is done, the sign (sex) becomes empty and void of its intended meaning. Continual mast ur bation is able to reinforce the separation of the 2. It is a form of focusing on the short term pleasure of this world (the physical), instead of the long term joy, which can only be found in the Lord (the spiritual). If anyone would like me to discuss this in more detail via private messaging, I would be happy to do so. Max Post Reply
View Profile History	SECRETS in the CLOSET Posted : 16 Apr, 2011 01:07 PM HolyGhostGirl, There's a lot involved when considering our sexuality. After all, we bear the image of Almighty God. Scripture tells us to do ALL that we do unto the Lord, and that by faith. Scripture also tells us that anything done, not by faith is sin. SO.... A christian would need to keep in mind that he or she would need to m..... unto the Lord, while doing so by faith! Sounds kind of tricky, doesn't it? Towards the latter part of his life, the Apostle Paul explains that it is no longer he living within himself, but that it is Christ who is living through him. Taking this into consideration, is Christ in us really into stimulating "Himself" in this way? Or would it be our flesh that yearns to stimulate itself apart from God - because it cannot find its joy and satisfaction in God. Post Reply
View Profile History	SECRETS in the CLOSET Posted : 16 Apr, 2011 01:21 PM lol two Post Reply
View Profile History	SECRETS in the CLOSET Posted : 16 Apr, 2011 01:27 PM Don't try to teach a pig to sing, it wastes your time and annoys the pig. Words to live by. Post Reply
View Profile History	SECRETS in the CLOSET Posted : 16 Apr, 2011 01:38 PM MsMarvel, you are wise beyond your years. Post Reply
View Profile History	SECRETS in the CLOSET Posted : 16 Apr, 2011 01:40 PM Oink..... Oink....Oink Post Reply
View Profile History	SECRETS in the CLOSET Posted : 16 Apr, 2011 01:40 PM And you're handsome beyond yours! But wise as well. Hi, by the way. :) (P.S. - I really don't think I'm wise, I should probably not talk so much and just sit here and look pretty, yeah?):ROFL: Post Reply
View Profile History	SECRETS in the CLOSET Posted : 16 Apr, 2011 02:00 PM "P.S. - I really don't think I'm wise, I should probably not talk so much and just sit here and look pretty, yeah?" Dunno about that ;) Not that you're not pretty...you are a very lovely woman. But what you have to say is often lovely as well. It is likely that your comments have protected others on this site from being led astray by the posts and comments of others on this site. Post Reply

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