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Brightknight146^ View Profile History	Why should Men pursue if... Posted : 12 Dec, 2023 01:37 PM Hello sisters. I'd like some answers to this question that has bothered me for some time because it causes me to be confused about the dating process... Why SHOULD MEN PURSUE if it's up to the Lady to choose the man she wants? Why not just the ladies choose the man by messaging him, and the guy pursue her from that point after? What say you? (and yes I already know the biblical example of Christ pursuing his bride, but online dating is tooootally different and coupled with our feministic culture, it sets up a double-work effort for most men; the cuties have it easy) Post Reply
Brightknight146^ View Profile History	Why should Men pursue if... Posted : 19 Dec, 2023 06:56 PM Thanks you Handyman, well said. I think a Solution for MOST MEN & WOMEN ONLINE (who happen to be average) is to break off the dating sites and go back to OLD FASHIONED Meeting and Greeting. AT least your chances of success are far better and your competition is FAR LESS and MORE Realistic. 2 things I've noticed about Online Dating: 1.) Average Men work twice -if not three times as hard to connect with a lady; 2.) Women are twice as proud and 2x less humble. (yes, the inflated ego/pride thing, though they may not see it because like the goldfish that doesn't know its breathing in water, women don't know the changes the internet has made on them since they just go with the flow of things). The above observations is why we have MGTOW "Men Going Their Own Way" & Passport Bros in secular America. One big thing feminism has accomplished: it made women more unhappy/ bitter/ depressed and its' frustrated Men. How can us Men and Women change the culture to a MORE positive and vibrant one where people aren't trapped in the Matrix of the INTERNET ? Perhaps you can Break all your devices and go back to old style living (as those who did in the 1950's-1980's). Meet Women in person and ask for her phone number and address and write her letters. And phone call her on a flip phone or see if you can get back the old fashioned telephone service again. Post Reply
Brightknight146^ View Profile History	Why should Men pursue if... Posted : 19 Dec, 2023 07:31 PM I think after 15 years of Cyber Dating (aka, online dating) and the internet age, more and more women are becoming dependent on the dopamine rush (hit) of validation from guys. Because women are given more to literacy-porn while men are given to visual (video porn). Internet, Cyber validation to women and cyber sex to men. See that? Can you see how we Christians have jumped into a snare of the devil (with allll the hundreds and thousands of choices of people to be pleased (worshiped) by? God help us remove the idols from our lives. Post Reply
FDCWillard View Profile History	Why should Men pursue if... Posted : 20 Dec, 2023 07:04 AM There was this stupid movie I don't recommend anyone watch (I only listened to the summary) giving a foolproof plan. Step 1 somehow get a few Billion in whatever currency setting you up for life. Step 2 lure the woman of your choice unto your yacht and tell her you can make her rich after a year if she does not leave. Step 3 stay away from harbours so she cannot escape. Step 4 just wait for her to become addicted to your filthy rich presence. If you pick right this probably works just by getting to step 1 Post Reply
Brightknight146^ View Profile History	Why should Men pursue if... Posted : 20 Dec, 2023 08:20 PM Try to find this documentary on Masculinity in America. The link below is a trailer of it. https://youtu.be/pGTMGecf-h0?si=j2r2jG9q5zhgaS8c They’re short videos. https://rumble.com/v3gxfec-real-america-dan-ball-w-kevin-sorbo-the-decline-of-masculinity-in-america.html This one is real good and insightful. I hope you enjoy it. https://rumble.com/v2gfpv6-embracing-healthy-masculinity-in-america.html Post Reply
Moonlight7 View Profile History	Why should Men pursue if... Posted : 21 Dec, 2023 01:19 PM @OP If a Woman ask a Man out to eat should she pay for the meal or should he offer to pay? Or should they decide together to go Dutch. Old saying; Dutch meaning they both pay for their own meal. Post Reply
Brightknight146^ View Profile History	Why should Men pursue if... Posted : 22 Dec, 2023 02:43 AM Moonlight: Go dutch at first. That way there's no pressure, unreasonable expectations or unmet expectations. Then after both like each other and desire to spend more time together, then it's fine if he pays. If she wants to pay, she can offer to. And that's fine. You two should view each other and "brother & sister" in the Lord. Don't make money an issue. Don't keep long tabs either. Speak up if you want certain things done or have certain expectations. Post Reply
Brightknight146^ View Profile History	Why should Men pursue if... Posted : 22 Dec, 2023 12:18 PM This is for the guys. The video has a carnal attitude towards online dating, but I think it has a lot of truth in it. Also, since I don’t know if any Christian videos on the topic, I share this. https://youtu.be/X9C1Q6tpXeM?si=G13GKFhx9D3w6rMl Copy and paste in address bar and listen in. Post Reply
Brightknight146^ View Profile History	Why should Men pursue if... Posted : 22 Dec, 2023 01:08 PM For Both Men & Women -----> https://youtu.be/417OPV4P3qw?si=XJ11ux7vhJpnWMtw If the internet is the problem (as people are constantly exposed to thousands of images per day, then consider handing over your devices to someone you trust to hold on to them, and take a long-term or permanent vacation from it. Addictions don't have to be just this in the video, it can be SUGARY drinks, COFFEE or Energy Drinks (stimulants), foods binging, TV or Video binging, etc. It can be work too. All idols need to be repented of (Commandment #1 of the 10). Blessings to you all. Post Reply
Lieberkim^ View Profile History	Why should Men pursue if... Posted : 26 Dec, 2023 04:56 PM Can’t speak for all womankind just myself. If the man isn’t interested enough to pursue he’s not interested. Post Reply
Handyman62 View Profile History	Why should Men pursue if... Posted : 27 Dec, 2023 07:31 AM Lieberkim if a man's not interested in pursuing you it's because he doesn't see you as worth pursuing. Trying to date the the modern " independent woman " has changed the way most men see women. If a man pursues a woman in this day and age he sets himself up for the potential of losing his job and or having his reputation destroyed and possibly end up in jail all because he let a woman know he found her attractive. Women also have the power to destroy their husbands and tear apart their familys for no good reason. So it's no surprise when a man doesn't pursue women. Post Reply

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