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Mysterious?
Posted : 31 May, 2010 09:55 PM

I've noticed many Christian young ladies I've come into contact with have this big obsession with being "mysterious"? Now, I can't speak for every guy on this site, but I find this to be quite irksome. When a girl acts "mysterious", it leads me to one of two conclusions.



One: "I'm not that interested in you."



or



Two: "I have trust issues." (IE - GIANT RED FLAG)



Please, if any of you are of this "mysterious" mindset; can you back it up with scripture or at least good theology? Because the whole thing has me stumped and frustrated. :-|



- Rodey

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Posted : 3 Jun, 2010 02:16 PM

Rodey, you are actually very good looking, not disgusting by a long shot. I wish I were your age-I'd write you!

I don't know how long you've talked to these elusive women, or what they were being elusive about, but keep in mind that some of us aren't very comfortable with a site like this. We really don't know you after just a few lines, and may be hesitant to give too much really personal information at first just for that reason. But if these women are elusive about what they enjoy doing, whether they have a pet, favorite foods, and such, that's different.

~Mary

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Posted : 3 Jun, 2010 05:01 PM

Most people here who know me are awhere I have cats, I model Ho scale trains, and like big trains.This makes for great talk. Find her hobbies.

I also grow fruit in my garden.

Dennis

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Posted : 3 Jun, 2010 06:17 PM

I write, I lift weights, I target shoot, I work on cars, I read, I debate, and I dig public speaking.



I have hobbies. :p



- Kyle

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Posted : 3 Jun, 2010 08:30 PM

Do you want to find a lady to talk to who also works on cars, lifts weights, and shoots targets? What would a lady you are interested in enjoy? The same things as you do, or other things?

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Posted : 4 Jun, 2010 09:15 PM

Haha, I'm not looking for the female version of me. I just want someone with a pure heart, awesome sense of humor, and a little bit of a nerdy side.



I'm not that hard to please. lol



- Kyle

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Posted : 8 Jun, 2010 10:29 AM

I wouldn�t necessarily communicate the interest, more common to guys, with her at the beginning of conversation. I am sure you have interest that a girl would like as well. I must say I had to chuckle when I read your interest.



As far as being mysterious, I am open but not too open. I am not going to talk about intimate subject matter. One guy saw some nice full-body pictures of me from the front and told me I had a nice shape. I said, �thank you.� He then asked me if I had a nice butt. Because I didn�t tell him was I being mysterious? No, I was being proper. I don�t mind a guy being a little mysterious but within reason.



I have some articles on my website that may be a blessing to you - www.solidfrontworshipcenter.org point to the �Single But Not Alone� page.



Blessings

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