Hello. My name is Lorenzo. I am 21-years old. I am a Childrens Pastor. I have never had too much luck in asking ladies out in the past. I was wondering I can get some help in figuring out what a ladie wants in a guy she dates. Thank you!
Really, God will be in everything, just pray and ask him to be.
Make sure the girl respects you, and cares for you as you do her. I think the thing men appreciate more is respect from the person they intend to marry. When you find one that loves the Lord, and also respects and loves you, you can totally tell.
This is an AWESOME QUESTION: I have a plan for you that is FULL PROOF.
1. First, you gotta get yourself a new job, but not just any new job. Something along the lines of a: Pro Athlete, or an Actor, or a CEO of a Very Large Fortune 500 company might work to. Not a Dr. or a Lawyers. (Too Common)
2. Step two you gotta work out alot!
Like 7 days a week until you have an 8 pack and 20 inch Pythons (Pythons =Arms) Also, you gotta have great hair (Great hair is a must)
3. Number 3 and this is Paramount.
YOU MUST HAVE A BOAT! Boats are key in attracting the ladies.
Every married guy I know has a boat. I would suggest a Yacht If you look for a deal I'm sure you can find one for under 50 mil. If not they only go up to around 1 billion (chicken feed)
4.And Finally number four and listen very carefully
YOU MUST be willing to do EVERYTHING she says.
Cater to her every whim. Withhold absolutely NOTHING from her, the minute you say NO the dream is over and you've lost her.
I hope this helps.......
Or you can just keep praying and wait on the Lord ;)
Haha, yeah, I guess it's true. I have several bats just sitting around the room anyway. I wouldn't hit her to hard. :nahnah:
There are no I Do's at this point. We are friends first and foremost. However, that clubbing idea may be an idea Rachel. Pretty sure you know why too :p
I'm going to reply to you in an honest way that apparently nobody here is willing to say. You may not like it, but it's the truth.
The reason you may not be having so much luck dating is your height. The vast majority of women like tall men. In a very subconscious, instinctual level, it's a a cue of strength and protection- something females crave in their men. They may not admit it on this board, but it would be very difficult for most women to date a guy that's shorter than them. And at 5'2", you're pretty short.
When women say that they look at your heart, and don't care about looks, it's BS. This should make sense, as the Bible itself says that only God knows the heart of men. Women aren't born with super powers to look into your heart. And you don't see a lot of 500lbs or old men with little wealth running around with super models.
Something to remember, that apparently nobody here talks about: generally speaking a CHRISTIAN woman is still basically a WOMAN. There's not that much difference in their basic desires. Maybe they'll say there is, but really, look at how they behave. Do you really believe it? Of course, there's an exception to every rule, but GENERALLY, it's about the same. Don't believe what they say. Believe how they behave.
OK, so you lost the genetic height lottery. Is there no hope? Of course not! There is plenty you can do. Now comes the encouragement part :-P
Women love confidence. You'll hear women say they they look for a leader. Why? It's a cue of strength and power. It's the same reason women are attracted to wealth and fame. You really think someone that looks like Mick Jagger or Prince could get the women they have if they weren't rich and famous? Just as men are visual (the reverse isn't true- you don't see Aretha Franklin with a bunch of male models, right?), women are attracted to leadership and power.
So, give them those cues. Work on your confidence. Smile. Make good eye contact when you talk. Command a room when you enter it. There are ways to do this with body language that I can't get into on here, but you can research it.
This is the truth, as we're living here on Earth. Things will be different in eternity, but we're not there right now are we? :waving:
what athletic says is actually true. People view men as the visual creatures when in reality women as well are visual. Thats why God gave us eyes, all of us are visual.
But ofcourse, not ALL women do care for height (i'm one of those women who do care, I can be honest about that), I know quite a few women who are with men shorter then themselves cos these men have a VERY masculine character about themselves which is sooooooo ATTRACTIVE to women.
Some women are attracted to steady men. Some women are attracted to the Mr. Commander men (as myself), some women are attracted to the Mr. Visionary Man. Each have different characteristics that are compatible for the woman!
But ya, haha I will say athletics (and ofcourse everyone) put up a good strong point!
