Author	Thread: How come I'm ignored a lot?
aaengel View Profile History	How come I'm ignored a lot? Posted : 10 Jan, 2011 09:35 PM Hello, I'm not sure if other guys have had this experience, but I'd like to know why most of the women ignore me when I try to send a polite hello message to them? Are you intentionally ignoring us guys? I know I can see it when someone has read my message. Wouldn't it be better to say you're not interested... I'd rather have that. Please don't be rude anymore.
View Profile History	How come I'm ignored a lot? Posted : 12 Jan, 2011 12:28 PM @ dg No, I'M perfect!!! Boy this one went South quick!:laugh: Sorry op. As much as it su cks, the only way to really learn is trial and error so keep trying and don't give up. There are some basic things that get said to death for answers to this, but the only way to really understand is trial and error. That's how I somewhat learned and still continue to learn. It's like riding a bike. At first you fall a lot and it hurts but if you keep trying and do different things eventually you somehow get it and it turns out to be pretty fun. Good luck!
View Profile History	How come I'm ignored a lot? Posted : 12 Jan, 2011 12:59 PM Ferngirl, I have tried to respectfully help you see things from a different perspective so you won't feel attacked. I cannot make you see. But I will leave you with this : If you think feeling like you have been victimized on a dating site is bad, just wait until you marry, it will be a thousand times worse. So. you better get a grip on it now or cry victim the rest of your life. I have tried to help, you refuse, it is out of my hands.
Ferngirl View Profile History	How come I'm ignored a lot? Posted : 12 Jan, 2011 01:09 PM Yes and I have explained already that I do understand but i see deeper too. You are an older man who's got old fashioned values. God's cool too, he loves hip hop n interracial love n stuff and he loves the youth too and even though almost 40, I am of a very young spirit. We're all different and God makes us all as he chooses but far too many get things wrong including me. Yeah it is out of your hands but I didnt put it there anyway. Im in the place I want to be and that's in God's hands and he's cool with me. Peace!
KellyBean View Profile History	How come I'm ignored a lot? Posted : 12 Jan, 2011 01:56 PM Guys aren't the only ones who get ignored. And to me, that "I don't think we'd make a good match" button seems kinda mean. But maybe they ignore because you live to far away, or your to old for them, etc. In anycase, sometimes it's just best to not say anything
rainbowian View Profile History	How come I'm ignored a lot? Posted : 12 Jan, 2011 01:58 PM What's wrong with someone that's, say, 5'9"? He would still be half a foot taller than you. Why pick 6'0" as the arbitrary cutoff point?
View Profile History	How come I'm ignored a lot? Posted : 12 Jan, 2011 02:04 PM Ferngirl, saying that I have old fashioned values shows you have not understood a word I said. *hand on forehead* *shaking head* Why do I even try....you know I have better things to do?
Tulip89 View Profile History	How come I'm ignored a lot? Posted : 12 Jan, 2011 02:22 PM I'm interested in how prospering would not include money and things if it includes all areas of our lives. Really though, shouldn't we be concerned more with what the Bible says than what other people teach us? What Bible verses do you have to back that up? Also, Christians are NOT the same person they were before Christ. 2 Corinthians 5:17 says that when we are in Christ, we are a new creation. Just as the person I was before Christ could not remain, neither can the person you were before Christ. We all have to become conformed to His image. I urge you to consider John 13:34-35 (as should everyone, including myself). Are you so loving towards others that your behavior can only be explained by the fact that you are one of Christ's disciples?
View Profile History	How come I'm ignored a lot? Posted : 12 Jan, 2011 02:36 PM @KellyBean: True, true, true, & Very True.
rainbowian View Profile History	How come I'm ignored a lot? Posted : 12 Jan, 2011 03:02 PM I disagree. I have no problem at all with the "sorry, not interested" button. It's being ignored entirely that I feel is rude.
Ferngirl View Profile History	How come I'm ignored a lot? Posted : 13 Jan, 2011 06:12 AM What's wrong with someone that's, say, 5'9"? He would still be half a foot taller than you. Why pick 6'0" as the arbitrary cutoff point? I dont fancy shawty's physically! A big broad, tall man makes me feels safe to be on his arm being his babygirl and I have suffered much abuse in the past. If I want a tall black man to reassure me emotionally, then that's my choice! The bigger and taller they are, the safer I feel with them against this cynical and ugly society in which we live in the real world!

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