Author	Thread: first meeting
Admin	first meeting Posted : 23 Jul, 2011 06:41 PM If you had a first meeting, wouldn't you feel safer in a Public place meeting? I met a really nice gentleman and he wants to take me on a date to a place I enjoy going. Actually, I like the State Fair which a Huge even in my City.lol However, first date should be a more relaxing atmospher would you all Agree? Post Reply
View Profile History	first meeting Posted : 24 Jul, 2011 06:22 AM The first date should be relaxing, but what is relaxing may be different to each person. For me, I am at my worst doing the traditional dinner date. I am a lot better if there is something for me to do. I think that is part of the point in our profile section for the ideal date. We can put in there if we would prefer a sit down date, or an activity date. Post Reply
View Profile History	first meeting Posted : 24 Jul, 2011 06:59 AM Cobbler You have a good point, putting what you prefer in the first date second on your profile. I find from my experience, Men seem to be more uncomfortable on the first date than I do. When I finally decide to meet any Man inperson, I am already at a comfort level of feelings. I move slow and talk, talk, on the emails first. Not a fast mover, I Run from me who Push me to meet. :laugh: I have had some try to get me married to them without even meeting first.:excited: Post Reply
View Profile History	first meeting Posted : 24 Jul, 2011 06:59 AM Cobbler You have a good point, putting what you prefer in the first date second on your profile. I find from my experience, Men seem to be more uncomfortable on the first date than I do. When I finally decide to meet any Man inperson, I am already at a comfort level of feelings. I move slow and talk, talk, on the emails first. Not a fast mover, I Run from me who Push me to meet. :laugh: I have had some try to get me married to them without even meeting first.:excited: Post Reply
View Profile History	first meeting Posted : 24 Jul, 2011 04:21 PM I think Fairs can be relaxing, but it is up to the couple. Always public for a first date, is my comfort level. And tell someone you are going, and let that someone know when you get back. I never have a girlfriend or sibling call me when I'm on a first date, but some ladies feel safe with that. Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	first meeting Posted : 24 Jul, 2011 07:05 PM Well, I personally wouldn't enjoy going to a fair on a first date, but then again, I don't enjoy going to fairs at all! But the concept is great...something fun, relaxing, with time to talk, yet enough to see and do to keep the date interesting. First dates (even with someone you think you know) or meetings should always be in a public location. I've always thought that having a friend or family member call during a first date is a good idea. If I didn't want to do that, I would tell someone exactly where I was going to be, who I was going to be with, and what time I expected to leave. And then I would check in with them when the date was over so they would know I was ok. I also think that it isn't safe to allow last-minute changes in a date location or time. Post Reply
View Profile History	first meeting Posted : 24 Jul, 2011 09:05 PM It's sad that you ladies need to be so careful about dates. I completely understand, just disappointed with the day and age we live in. The woman I am courting takes care of her mother, and her father is no longer in the picture, so they are very protective of their address. I want to be able to send flowers, books, letters and such things, but again, I totally understand. I personally wouldn't mind if her mom or siblings came for the first date if that made them all feel more comfortable. Post Reply