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steveofgod View Profile History	why are the poetic passionate never noticed Posted : 26 Sep, 2011 08:52 PM I liked a girl and being a musician wrote her tons of songs and poetry and ,well it just pours out of me when Im in love,my heat is honest and full and ,,perhaps she just didnt love me back but I just dont understand how someone with such capacity for love is overlooked and lonely,I would have adored her and listened to her when she needed me and loved her and her children as my own,its just hard to find that Girl who connects just right ,my heartsjourney has been long and lonely . Post Reply
View Profile History	why are the poetic passionate never noticed Posted : 26 Sep, 2011 10:00 PM Sometimes it's not a matter of being noticed, but maybe more about where your focus is. Anyone can 'fall in love' with anyone else, but if it's not God's will that that person be joined to the other, then it won't work no matter how hard they may try or what they invest into it. Also, someone once told me that the most creative people are often the ones who get hurt the deepest and most often. The Enemy hates the hearts of those who are sensitive to those around them and to the voice of God. He would (and does) do almost anything to make us feel alone, singled out and worthless. But according to our Creator, we are each of great value and have been given power to silence the Enemy when he tries to fill our hearts and minds with doubt and lies. Unfortunately many of us fall back on fear and mistrust instead of calling on our Father and letting Him be the one to speak into us. We have to make a conscious choice in what we let hold sway in our lives. Post Reply
View Profile History	why are the poetic passionate never noticed Posted : 27 Sep, 2011 07:38 AM Hi, Steve!!! ... from another creative guy named Steve. I sure can relate to all your heart's been venting about, Steve ... been there too, brother ... but we know God has a purpose in all that He allows in our lives that hurt us, especially love that turns out to be "in vain love" again and again ... and that eventually He will work everything out for our good ... according to his His plan and purposes for our lives.!!! :yay::dancingp::applause: Arawen reminds us wisely of things we know God wants us to know and remember in our journeys though this heaven and earth with Him, wrapped in the arms of His love, as we search for a helpmate to share true love with as we continue to grow in Christ while working out our salvation as we represent our Lord and share Him with others. Thanks, Arawen, for your "words of wisdom". Steve McLean Post Reply
View Profile History	why are the poetic passionate never noticed Posted : 28 Sep, 2011 12:27 PM Because they haven't made it big in Hollywood or Nashville yet. Post Reply
cowgirl1984 View Profile History	why are the poetic passionate never noticed Posted : 2 Oct, 2011 12:04 AM Wow. Arawen, that was an incredibly insightful and dead-on answer! I agree. Maybe the degree to which you are rejected is because the women who reject you feel you come on too strong? I'm not saying "change who you are" or anything like that. I'm just saying the strength of the rejection may be proportional to the strength of your outpouring. The right girl will come along and love you for who you are, so again I'm in no way saying "change." I'm just hoping to encourage you that the rejections are most likely not meant as hurtfully as they are felt. They may just be a proportional response. Take it in stride and know that there is someone out there who is hoping to find a man who will pour his heart out to her in the way that you want to do for a woman. You just haven't found her yet. Maybe test the waters a little more slowly to find out first if the woman you have your eye on is the right one before pouring your heart out? I'm just thinking that it might help you not get hurt quite as much (though it might not, who knows). I wish rejections didn't have to hurt so much, but unfortunately that's the reality of emotion. But you can't truly appreciate positive emotions without feeling negative ones too :glow: Post Reply