Author	Thread: Am i doing something wrong?
Admin	Am i doing something wrong? Posted : 22 Nov, 2011 02:43 AM I just wanted to ask the ladies on here,whenever i make a first message, im very polite and endearing towards them, but i never get replies, so can i safely ask, am i honestly doing something wrong? Post Reply
View Profile History	Am i doing something wrong? Posted : 22 Nov, 2011 02:32 PM The only thing I would suggest is that you put something about your faith in your profile. This being a Christian dating site, and there being so many nominal "Christians" around, most of the women here would want some evidence of where you are with Jesus. Of course, even if you were to be as handsome as me*, UK girls are very much hard work eliciting a response from, and the majority of this site's members seem to be from the US which kinda disqualifies you automatically. One thing you could try is taking a more active part on the forums - it'll guarantee people look at your profile - but again, most here are Americans * yeah, right... Post Reply
View Profile History	Am i doing something wrong? Posted : 23 Nov, 2011 02:11 PM Americans may the majority but they are closely followed by people from outside the western world. Europeans are rare here it seems. Post Reply
HolyGhostGirl View Profile History	Am i doing something wrong? Posted : 27 Nov, 2011 03:06 PM It could be your location. I'm not sure. When a man messages me, I generally take him fairly seriously, and respond promptly. If I happen to check his profile and it seems vague, I lose interest in him. If he has pictures of a woman/women and I don't know who they are...lol...I lose interest. Sometimes it could just be your marital status (if you're separated, ever been divorced), kids, if you smoke or drink, etc. Possibly even the ppl you're into are not into you and the ones you're not into are into you...lol...that's the story of my life...lol... Sometimes it seems the "real Christian" is often overlooked for the carnal one. Sorry I couldn't help more. Just hang in there and believe that the Lord has a hedge of protection around you, and perhaps He's just keeping you "hidden" from those women you're contacting, in order to preserve you for your soon-to-be wife! Post Reply
View Profile History	Am i doing something wrong? Posted : 28 Nov, 2011 09:12 AM IDK, your profile is nice and you are good-looking. Good luck! Post Reply