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Is there such a thing as a guy being too honest?Posted : 4 Aug, 2012 01:00 PMHello lady's and gentleman. I got a complex problem for those women who love a good challenge. I'm always hearing women tell me that they want an honest and nice man. And in my book honesty has to be one of the greatest virtues of godly character -- expescially in this modern age. I don't have a problem getting a woman. It's keeping them. See, in my past relationships I have enjoyed getting to honor God (because God hates lairs) and being extremely honest and upfront with my long list of ex-girlfriends. It's not that I spill my guts out too them lol. But each woman besides telling me that I'm the greatest Guy they've ever been with, has also told me their reasons for leaving and there all along the lines of me being too honest. So, I got to wonder a few things... Is there any woman who really does cherish honesty and not just say they do but back it up with action? Should I stop being honest towards women, because I see other guys who seem to have no character at all have more luck at making into a longer term relationships and marriage then us righteous men do. ( I'll admit that a lot of that has to do with them getting a woman pregnant before marriage. But my point is there.. it works and if you have to trick someone into marriage these days then what's the point ) I also think about a larger perspective. In a Lady gaga inspired, short skirt world -- where seeing a woman or man naked is just a click away: Is there anyone that want's to be valued, wants to be different from the world, and wants to holy. Enough to please God By acting on that desire with every step they make. I see so many women say on their profile's how happy they are in a world that the Bible says is ruled by the devil until Christ returns. Their number one quality that they are looking for in a man. "That he makes her laugh." Entertainment? Really? I'm honestly feeling kind of defeated right now because no one seems to get the bigger picture from God's perspective. Anyway, God bless and thanks to any opinions that come my way. If your confused what I'm asking, " Is there such a thing as being too honest and if there is, how much should I lie about? Because telling people the truth isn't working.. they seem to wanting some disneyland princess experience... which I don't know how that's going to help in a marriage but whatever lol. |
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Is there such a thing as a guy being too honest?Posted : 5 Aug, 2012 01:46 PMThe only thing I can say is there is a difference between being honest and opinionated and sometimes that line gets blurred. Sometimes what you think is being honest with someone may in reality be your opinion and the person may not agree with it. |
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Is there such a thing as a guy being too honest?Posted : 5 Aug, 2012 01:46 PMThe only thing I can say is there is a difference between being honest and opinionated and sometimes that line gets blurred. Sometimes what you think is being honest with someone may in reality be your opinion and the person may not agree with it. |
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Is there such a thing as a guy being too honest?Posted : 5 Aug, 2012 03:09 PMThanks for the advice, I'll gladly take your opinion to heart. but for some reason the CDFF website posted my question twice so I'm asking others to post their comments on the other one since it already has the most comments and I really don't want to run back and forth between the two. sorry for any inconvenience, thank you for understanding and God bless |
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Is there such a thing as a guy being too honest?Posted : 29 Aug, 2012 04:09 PMHonesty, is something I value, if you have no trust in a relationship it is because someone in it failed to keep their word. I do not trust easy after someone has broken their word to me. |