Author	Thread: my profile is this weird or off putting help me please ladies ???
Admin	my profile is this weird or off putting help me please ladies ??? Posted : 2 Oct, 2012 09:43 AM im really just looking to make new freinds as i have had all the wrong people around me in a sense of what they want out of life as i have love for them as human beings sometimes struggle with religion i could do with a partner who believes in god alot and can help me with god as i need true love in my life im very easy going and am busy everyday but saturday i just want to meet new freinds and hopefully see how it goes from there i have alot of love in my heart and as long as im treated right you will see all of that i need help from a partner to be shown love to help me with god anyone who just has words of advice feel free to chat as i feel very alone in my quest to find god i m just looking for people that have a faith in god to talk to and be friends with as "christians: can we not be friends ?? i know i dont have a picture up as i have no way of putting one on my computer youd be suprised i have a six pack and toned body without trying to boast or say its important but im not really unattractive or a creep as some people think and i get girls attention i just dont want to have sex with someone then leave them thats why i havent had many relationships or gone further than fingers and thumbs really dont pay attention to my chat forum post i know it sounds abit desperate but i just didnt word it properly im not on here to judge people or tell you youve done wrong cause youve had sex or something cause ive done many wrongs also and have fantasies but i just thought being on a CHRISTIAN dating site i could find someone that wanted a loving morale relationship with just one person i didnt think this would be a hook up site am i wrong does noone want to talk to me about god im not ugly and evan i think there has to be some physical atrraction in a relationship or your mind will just stray but i believe the way you look after your body do you hair dress and vibe you give off is what is attractive not just natural looks if anyone just weants to chat feel free to message me as i wont judge and im more than open to chat Post Reply
Redwolff644 View Profile History	my profile is this weird or off putting help me please ladies ??? Posted : 10 Oct, 2012 07:18 PM I may not be a girl, but I think I have an idea. You need to use punctuation and grammar. It is really difficult to read the post you put here. If I can't read a profile, I'm not going to respond. End of story. Post Reply
KariA View Profile History	my profile is this weird or off putting help me please ladies ??? Posted : 13 Oct, 2012 12:40 PM Pretty much what he said. I also don't respond to profiles without a picture. It's not that I think they might be ugly, but with all of the anonymity on the internet and the uneasiness about meeting and developing a relationship with someone I met online, the idea of responding to someone when I don't even know what they look like just adds to that. Post Reply
JennnLag View Profile History	my profile is this weird or off putting help me please ladies ??? Posted : 21 Oct, 2012 08:26 PM I had an incredibly difficult time reading your post due to lack of punctuation. As a matter of fact, I didn't read the entire post because it was making me dizzy! Try pausing, stopping after your thought and place a period there. Post Reply
Moichepit View Profile History	my profile is this weird or off putting help me please ladies ??? Posted : 22 Oct, 2012 12:45 AM I totally agree with KariA... Personally, It's enough that I've put in the effort to have a pic posted wich to me signifies fearlessness/open. I personally skip over profiles with out photos. If I do read it, its only because I want to see if there is an excuse written. Even then I don't ask and skip right thru. No excuse. If that guy is interested in getting to know me, then I would ask for a pic. Post Reply
View Profile History	my profile is this weird or off putting help me please ladies ??? Posted : 24 Oct, 2012 04:40 PM thanks for replying i just have no way of putting up or i would im ot ashamed of my looks i work out and without boosting get alot of female attention i have nothing to worry about there its annoying i dont have a camera phone or something so i could as guessing by my day to day life a majority of girls have some kind of attaction to me buit just abit of advice just cause your know what a person looks like doesnt mean hes not a creep and just cause you dont vice versa basically in the uk its come out recently one of our most well known famous comedians used to abuse underage children he showed his face to plenty of people but used to do that with his mates if someones a creep there a creep a picture or no picture isnt going to stop that creeps are actually quite smart in some ways and will do things to make themselves look uncreepy to do there creepy stuff i do get where your coming from with the picture thing but this is a christian site i find alot of people in life are "christians" with no intent in pleasing god but just getting saved and being selfish i sin sometimes out of anger sometimes out temptation sometimes out of being sprung with a situation and just not thinking but i hate it and always want to do gods nature in my heart evan if i didnt get saved at the end of it cause i just love god and his nature with all my heart its just written in my soul ive always had different heart to alot people around me from a young age i find you saying that im scared to put up a picture abit offensive i come from and area where i was beaten up and bullied on a regular basis ive had to overcome alot more harder things than putting a picture up i attract girls all day long im no way ashamed of my looks i used to be but as i grew up i toned up and manned up and i attract girls of all ages college girls cant get enough of me there constantly looking and being flirty girls who go to work evan women in there mid to late twentys cant keep there there eyes of me and turn round and smile at me when there with thier boyfreinds giving me looks instead that last example happens abit so i aint couring away behind a computer screen playing with myself or somethiong i just LITERALLY HAVE NO WAY OF PUTTING A PICTURE UP I THOUGHT THIS WAS A CHRISTIAN SITE i cant judge people but are you not supposed to help your brother in a hour of need evan if hes cursing you i just want to meet a nice christian girl so we can have a morale relationship i dont have sex before marriage and my last girlfreind used to ask me to do stuff with her sexually was 11 years older than me a "christian" then ran off back to her ex was a bully played on my weaknesses that id be kind to her and not be nasty evan though she 24/7 hurt and upset all the time then got me into her bad habits sexually out of temptation and partly my own desires and made me feel i had to touch her to stay with her etc etc etc tbh while i was confused about god and vunerable sometimes i feel i dont belong here i came here to talk to christians as i8 work 6 days a week long hours and live in london wannabe gangster im so cool look at me im better than you central evan if i was a creep or whatever that you didnt want to talk to your judging yourself have you never thought some people need help you cant judge ANYONE NOT EVAN A RAPIST THATS GODS JOB NOT YOURS EVAN GOD THE HATER OF ALL SIN COULD FORGIVE A MURDERER WHO ARE YOU TO SAY IM NOT TALKING TO THIS PERSON CAUSE OF THIS OR THAT people need help im no creep i can assure you that but i feel im being judged as a weirdo for not having a pic when i just cant put a pic up i dont have the facilities and just want to chat with someone for 30 mins after work as i have a lack of social life now and want to try meet a certain type of girl who will want to build a patient realtionship and deal with that im not around apart from weekends and i dont have to worry oh shes going to be around loads of boys kissing them too etc cause there just craving that touch etc and havent being educated on god properly or id just say hi how are you to one on the many college girls that keep staring at me day after day sorry if i seem rude but i think people need to come together and stop judging people cause of this or that in this world its ridicoulous sorry if i seem rude i just dont like feeling like im being judged by other humans tbh its rude esp over a picture Post Reply
Moichepit View Profile History	my profile is this weird or off putting help me please ladies ??? Posted : 30 Oct, 2012 12:01 AM Michael, First and foremost you are giving to much info with your reply. Second, you need to remember that you posted a question and I answered the question. Third, in no way shape or form did I judge you. I stated a fact. Fourth if you do not want to post a pic, than fine. It's whatever you want to do because you are not being obliterated. Just because you don't have one up, doesn't automatically make you a perv, but for most women; it makes them feel less suspicious/wary of who it is that they are messaging. God bless and enlighten you, my brother! Post Reply
View Profile History	my profile is this weird or off putting help me please ladies ??? Posted : 1 Dec, 2012 09:52 AM sorry i was just upset really sorry thankyou and sorry for any rudeness or bluntness in my message lots of love x Post Reply