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Friends with your Ex?
Posted : 21 May, 2014 05:58 AM

For those of us who are having a long distance relationship.Would you approve your spouse's "friendship" with his/her ex ?

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Hisjoymypeace

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Friends with your Ex?
Posted : 21 May, 2014 10:55 AM

To be honest, if trust and integrity from myself and that possible mate, is not tried and trued between us, then what's the point(smile)!! I would want to believe that if he tells me that the friendship between himself and his ex is strictly "platonic", then that's the way it is! Especially if there are children involved.



And even if there was reason for suspicion in lieu of the distance, there's really not much I could do but completely depend on the power of The Holy Spirit to guide, confirm and reveal! I hope this helps. Be blessed.

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Lukia^

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Posted : 23 May, 2014 12:36 AM

Well said Hisjoymypeace.

The word here is trust,give your friend all benefit of doubt.I don't think people become enemies just because they can't get along in love.If the enemity comes and you can't help it fine,but if there is friendship its ok.Always put yourself in his shoes,and ask yourself if you would want him to mistrust you with your ex.

Give him all benefit of doubt until there is a good reason not to trust him.

Hope it makes sense.

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