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why doesn't anyone respond?
Posted : 8 Dec, 2014 08:21 PM

hello, ive had trouble finding people on here, no one ever responds to any of messages, was wondering if i was doing something wrong? i usally send "hey im zak how are you?" is that bad? idk or maybe i just dont look good enough thoughts?

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why doesn't anyone respond?
Posted : 8 Dec, 2014 09:29 PM

Women get lots of messages. And 99% of the messages are the same.

The typical message looks like this:

Subject: Hi

Hey, I am so and so, was up?

Some women get hundreds of messages like this. So, you have to write something more unique. Don't write "Hi" in the subject line. Write something else. Also, make sure your spelling is 100% perfect.

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Posted : 10 Dec, 2014 04:54 AM

There have been other questions about starting a conversation. The advice given is usually to mention something interesting from the girl's profile. This is good advice. It creates a point of shared interest and let's stay away from the stereotypical "Me Tarzan, you Jane" to which girls respond only if we actually look like Tarzan.

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Posted : 10 Dec, 2014 07:35 AM

I don't think its your looks at all.. try the chat room. ppl can get to know you one on one in there.. l dont respond personally partly cause that line is the same one the scammers use, and because if l respond that l am not interested many men will write very degrading things back.. its easier just to not respond.

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Posted : 7 Jan, 2015 04:19 PM

I wouldn't expect that from a Christian site. Wow...

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Posted : 10 Jan, 2015 06:46 PM

Adamzak,

Try commenting on what caught your eye about her profile. What made her stand out that you decided to message her? We women don't really like the typical "How are you doing" question. At lease, I don't. Example: I see on your profile you like... It's a more effective way to break the ice.

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