Author	Thread: how can i do things the right way
Admin	how can i do things the right way Posted : 9 Dec, 2014 04:53 AM with all my best intentions i still can't get things right, when do i say something? and when do i just shut up? how do i know when it is the right time to say how i feel? is your judgement on a guy always based on other guys from your past or do you give the new guy clean slate from the beginning?a woman's perspective on this would be nice Post Reply
Hisjoymypeace View Profile History	how can i do things the right way Posted : 10 Dec, 2014 12:25 AM My brother, there's really no clear cut answer or method as to when, what and how you should respond to someone you are getting to know for the first time! That's the point...you are getting to know each other...things won't be perfect(smile)! At some point, even if you've just started chatting a short time, you should begin to discern when to speak and when to just listen! I recommend just being yourself...let the conversation flow, gaining it's own speed...finding it's own path(smile)! If the right connection is made, you'll probably end up talking about everything, while not even aware how much time has passed! And as for our past coming into our future...yeah, well that's not always easy not to happen but if we respect that our lives didn't start when we met, half the battle has already been won! I would certainly try hard for my past to not interfere with the blessings of my future! Prayerfully that special someone that God has prepared for you is waiting for you as you them! Wait on The Lord and He will give you the desires of your heart! Be blessed. Post Reply
tiingy View Profile History	how can i do things the right way Posted : 10 Dec, 2014 07:43 AM I agree with hisjoy.. well put! l personally dont judge men on my past experiences but l know alot of women who do. i think its more about finding that person God has for you.. think of all those ppl who reject you as not the person that God has for you and it might be easier. What l found was when the right person came along the lines of communication were open and free and l no longer had to prethink everything l said. .. hope that helps Post Reply
View Profile History	how can i do things the right way Posted : 10 Dec, 2014 04:24 PM thank you ladies, :bow: being myself don't seem to work, i think i should start pretending to to be someone else as it seems people who are not themselves seem to me to be doing very well for themselves Post Reply
Hisjoymypeace View Profile History	how can i do things the right way Posted : 29 Dec, 2014 08:56 PM Ummmmm...and what do you think my friend happens when the real you does emerge...sounds like things can become more complimented then they need to be(smile)!! I'll say again, being yourself at ALL times eliminates the need to remember who you tried to be yesterday, making it easier to be who you are today and God willing...tomorrow!! Allow The Lord to renew your strength, preparing you to receive your destiny in Him! That special person is out there...you must be patient in your pursue while trusting and believing! God's best to you. Post Reply
Hisjoymypeace View Profile History	how can i do things the right way Posted : 30 Dec, 2014 10:20 PM Oops..."become more complicated"! Post Reply
View Profile History	how can i do things the right way Posted : 31 Dec, 2014 02:08 PM very wise lady you are,i will try to be myself a bit longer then :rolleyes: Post Reply