Author	Thread: How would you like a guy to introduce himself?
Randall22 View Profile History	How would you like a guy to introduce himself? Posted : 25 Jan, 2015 11:52 AM Hi! I wanted to get a woman's opinions on when a guy first messages you what do you want to hear? What i mean is what is ok and not ok? Is it better to introduce yourself first and say something about yourself or say what you are looking for up front? And is it better to say something about yourself, Ask the girl questions first or a mix of both? I am inexperienced when it come's to dating in general so any advise is appreciated! Thank you and God bless!! Post Reply
sisygirl View Profile History	How would you like a guy to introduce himself? Posted : 25 Jan, 2015 10:37 PM Creativity plays a big part in online dating in regard with getting a lady's attention let alone maintaining the flow if she'll be interested to interact at all. But then again how can one expect an inexperienced guy to be creative when his still learning? This is where and when you notify the lady that you're trying to break the ice with, that you're interested in getting to know her better though you are still in your baby steps with online dating! Highlight what you think you have in common with her from her profile summery and capitalise on that so you both have a common ground in your first massages, then a conversation will flow from there. With time you'll know if you should open up and express what your needs are from a relationship and what you have to offer. You'll know also if it's just not worth you communicating to that extend. And again be more cautious that you're not manipulated and taken advantage of after you've made known that you're in your learning steps with online dating! Hope that helps a bit hey... God be with you in your search. Post Reply
Randall22 View Profile History	How would you like a guy to introduce himself? Posted : 26 Jan, 2015 08:48 AM Thank you for the great advise! Not just from me but for every new guy to online dating. God Bless Post Reply
osol_letse View Profile History	How would you like a guy to introduce himself? Posted : 27 Jan, 2015 09:17 PM to be honest.. i always have doubts with men here... a lot of scammers in here.. all i want from a guy is to be a real honest with himself..nothing but honesty counts with me.. Post Reply
sisygirl View Profile History	How would you like a guy to introduce himself? Posted : 27 Jan, 2015 11:40 PM Hi Osol! �All i want from a guy is to be a real honest with himself..nothing but honesty counts with me.� That's a sensefull and interesting reply you shared there. There's no way he can be honest with you when failing to be honest with himself first! But now how do you know or rather make sure that his telling the truth considering that you have never met him inperson, you don't know him at all to even figure out if his now telling lies? Do you have some sort of a strategy that you kinda use that you can share with ladies in this dating site maybe... Cause if there's a way of finding out if one is being dishonest, I'd like to learn and use that strategy on my daily encounters. Do you ask him the same question a number of times in different ways maybe with a timeframe of different days in between your massaging? Please kindly share sis and thank you for educating us! Post Reply
osol_letse View Profile History	How would you like a guy to introduce himself? Posted : 28 Jan, 2015 07:53 PM hello sisygirl.. i tried to send a private message to u but i can't... sorry i not like posting it here in public.. Post Reply
arcangelsrock View Profile History	How would you like a guy to introduce himself? Posted : 31 Jan, 2015 01:36 PM Hi... I agree with what the ladies say here and will include. If you are asking a question: question should be clean or your comment should be clean. Put in as much effort as you do in others areas of your life into your profile, pictures. As its pretty telling if pictures are old, blurry, on a bed, shirt off, party pics. Incomplete or too vague profile. I personally will not acknowledge anyone who didn't read, sloppy profiles or vague. I take all that into consideration and more when looking at a greeting. Best Regards Post Reply