Author	Thread: Do You Use Courtship & Friendship?
Crowned278 View Profile History	Do You Use Courtship & Friendship? Posted : 18 Feb, 2015 04:05 AM Hello ladies! My question for you all today is do you use courtship as a way of getting to know a man that you would like to know more when you are ready to make a commitment? Explain your answer. Post Reply
Hisjoymypeace View Profile History	Do You Use Courtship & Friendship? Posted : 20 Feb, 2015 04:16 PM To be honest, I would hope to use the "courting" process for both concepts! You know, even before the decision is made to become exclusive to one another, there should have already been a "connecting" as friends in fellowship. The blessings of beginning a courtship from that point can only inspire commitment towards a life long partnership(smile)! Post Reply
View Profile History	Do You Use Courtship & Friendship? Posted : 13 Mar, 2015 06:01 PM I like the old ways of doing things. Dating many guys was not looked upon as being promiscuous. I guess, that would be now just considered hanging out with groups of friends and going out for coffee. This is where you would get that opportunity to get to know each other to see if you really did want to "date" or in old fashioned terms, go steady. Now, I guess you could call it courtship (I realize they are slightly different). I like the idea of courtship in the terms that it is focusing on respecting and honoring the other. Moving towards a more personal relationship. It guards your heart and keeps things from moving so fast that you might be tempted to go where you did not want to go. It also shows a lady if a man is willing to wait for her, he is practicing control and will be able to continue practicing that control towards other women when married. Make sense? So, if I find someone, I would like to use that model of respect and honoring of each other's emotions and body. Post Reply