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Rabbit32

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Ladies a little friendly advise...
Posted : 25 May, 2010 11:18 PM

...about how you present yourself on sites like these and others.



1. Do not crop your pics to where it cuts off half of your body, show all of yourself



2. Do not hold your camera above your head, the camera isnt like the eye and even though it makes for a good picture its not what you look like normally so please dont do it. :)



3. Wear light colored clothing so that it reflects the light better, dont use dark clothing to hide your flaws, thats just dishonest. If a man likes you well enough and you have parts of your body that arent very attractive said man will overlook that.



4. Dont photoshop, or get artsy with your pics, just be real.



5. If you are an lady who isnt a spring chicken any more, dont put a picture of you from your glory days, as a profile pic, thats just plain dishonest.



6. Not directly related, but for this site and for the love of God and your Chistian brothers completly conceal your"girls" away, we can concentrate on being pure more if we dont see the objects of our sensual desire. Proverbs 11:22



The reason I say this is too many women present themselves as something other than what they truly are and sometimes, in my case, it is less than what I desire when i finally see them as they are. When that happens there is a severe backlash because I withdrawl, and it doesn't matter how well the conversation, or connection was. ok rant off

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Posted : 25 May, 2010 11:30 PM

Rabbit has a point. Only showing your face implies a lot of insecurity with the rest of you. You are who you are, and you need to be proud of it.

Also, we don't want to see a picture of each of your 9 pets or 9 pictures of your one pet. We want to see you.

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Posted : 25 May, 2010 11:35 PM

Okay, whole body, eye level, non-artsy, dark clothed, twins concealed pic just taken yesterday. Gotcha.

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Posted : 25 May, 2010 11:56 PM

lol non dark clothes. You know the old saying black is sliming, but thats not always a good thing. :)

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Posted : 25 May, 2010 11:59 PM

O before I forget, if your a big gal, please dont have a bunch of pics with your face framed by your hair. In rela time thats awesome, on here its decieving. :)

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Posted : 26 May, 2010 12:08 AM

Whoops! Light-colored clothes! Gotcha!



I don't know who said that jazz about black being slimming. How bout us who don't want to look slim? :dancingp: I'm telling you, once you go thick and fabulous you won't go back! :rocknroll: :ROFL:

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Posted : 26 May, 2010 12:13 AM

Why I never! Who is that young fella trying to tell me I'm not a spring chicken and that my glory days are over!!!



Rabbit, I know you're giving good advice, but by the time I FINALLY got 1 photo loaded on, I wasn't the least bit interested in trying to add another. I have the full length shots, so you come on over, and I'll let ya load em.



spring ROSE

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Posted : 26 May, 2010 05:55 AM

LOL SR!

Thanks for all the good tips - they were said in love and with tact.

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Posted : 26 May, 2010 01:56 PM

you are so right. I'll like to add to enlarge you photo. Sometimes with these photo's, you need a magnifying glass to even figure out if you are a woman lol.

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Posted : 26 May, 2010 03:38 PM

I will let you guys in on a little secret....

Step 1.

If you hold down Ctrl (its on the bottom left and right hand side of your keyboard).

Step 2.

Take the scroll button on your mouse (typically its between the left clicker and your right clicker) and go up. Remember you should still be holding down Ctrl.

This will magnify the images you have on your screen so you can better see whom you are looking at :)

Remember folks go big or go home!

And all the seniors said, Amen!

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Posted : 26 May, 2010 03:54 PM

what you talking about willus!!!!!!!!

Not spring chickens anymore!!!!!!!

I ought to feed him to my cats.

GRRRRRRRR

HIIIISSSSSSS





watch it mister, you'll be this age someday. It my cats do not get you first.:ROFL: :dancingp: :laugh:

Dennis the young 43 year old

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