Author	Thread: Dates.....
Admin	Dates..... Posted : 2 Jun, 2010 07:22 PM I wanted to get some of the womens opinions on here about when is the right time to ask a women out on a date, or the right time to ask a women if she wants to meet up? Its something I've been wondering and struggling with lately. Is there a ceratian amount of messages that some of you go buy or think is enough? This can be for the guys too, at what point do some of you guys decide to ask a women out on here? For me I like to really get to know the women on internet dating sites before I ask her out, but I've found that I usually wait too long and she just stops talking to me. So when is too soon, or too late? Post Reply
Phoebe2 View Profile History	Dates..... Posted : 2 Jun, 2010 10:54 PM Can't really determine a "right time", as it differs from a person to another. I might just correspond with someone few times online, then feel like meeting in person; while talk to another and don't feel comfortable enough to meet.But that's just me. Other women might think that going on a date will reveal more . To answer your question, u can ask a woman out when u both have enough basic information about each other, and that could be accomplished in three-four phone calls / online chat. If u're positive that both of u still interested to know one another more, then ask her out :rocknroll: Waiting too long, would kill that first attraction, we shouldn't expect to know someone through the internet, it's only a way to meet someone with mutual interests. I hope u find & meet the right, one on the right time! :glow: Blessings, Phoebe Post Reply
View Profile History	Dates..... Posted : 3 Jun, 2010 12:00 PM if she lives nearby, no reason to wait to long. meet her for coffee, that's pretty safe and neutral. You can chat in person and get to know each other. I would say talk on the phone or whatever for about a month or so on a regular basis, if she seems interested, suggest a meeting. you can always be friends if nothing else. Post Reply
View Profile History	Dates..... Posted : 3 Jun, 2010 02:07 PM ok, thank you all for you opinions, you all have helped me out. Any other opinions would be great also. But I have a general idea now. Post Reply
View Profile History	Dates..... Posted : 3 Jun, 2010 07:06 PM The best way to know someone is to spend time with them face-to-face. I don't mind if a guy wants to meet me right away. If the lady lives nearby - don't wait. Post Reply
View Profile History	Dates..... Posted : 8 Jun, 2010 09:55 AM I have to agree with godslamb. If she is local and you are comfortable with her on the phone, don�t wait. I like to meet after a couple of weeks of talking on the phone. By that time the real him shows up and I will know if I want to go beyond the phone. I have learned some basic steps to getting the real guy out from under his sweet, playful personality. I have met some very ugly men who were hidden beneath a nice personality. My goal, when meeting a man, is to pull the real him out. However, I have met some men who aren�t hiding. They present their real self. Those remain my friends, the others I slowly move away from communicating with. I have some articles on my website that may be a blessing to you - www.solidfrontworshipcenter.org point to the �Single But Not Alone� page. Blessings Post Reply