Author	Thread: Confused
Admin	Confused Posted : 19 Jun, 2010 09:22 PM I've been on about six or seven dates with a particular girl over the past couple of months...but she doesn't seem like she's even that interested in me. I had pretty much given up on it, but the last couple of times we have been out together, she was the one to contact me. I'm not sure if this means she's interested or not. It seems like whenever we're together she's never that interested in what I say and she's not the greatest at showing that she's impressed by anything. No, I'm not trying to go out of my way to dazzle her or anything...but it just seems that nothing I do is ever appealing, or at least she doesn't show it. Yet she still talks to me...what is going on? - Rodey Post Reply
View Profile History	Confused Posted : 19 Jun, 2010 11:26 PM does she call you sporadically to go out? or is it more of a normal dating patern? if it's sporadically i'm afraid she is entertained by you or even more harshly using you for a meal. i pray not. when you say she's doesn't seem impressed, is it that she looks off a lot and doesn't make much eye contact? i tend not to make too much eye contact on account of trying to keep a level head. plus it seems like the guy is trying to find my soul, hijack it and keep it for life... just a tad bit uncomfortable at times. :laugh: on the upside the conversations is healthy. how is the conversation between you two; are you making all the effort? i could keep asking questions but i hope the answers for the ones i asked are positive... i'm trying to keep away from assumptions. hope you get some helpful feedback. Post Reply
View Profile History	Confused Posted : 20 Jun, 2010 05:27 AM i almost want to say that the next time she asks you to go out say you have plans and see what happens. Post Reply
View Profile History	Confused Posted : 20 Jun, 2010 02:45 PM maybe she's having a hard time letting you in. she could also be struggling with feeling worthy that someone could be interested in her. Or a bad break up recently. best thing to do is ask her straight out. just some suggestion :) Post Reply
View Profile History	Confused Posted : 20 Jun, 2010 10:56 PM I agree with River. Ask her. She would know better what's going on than we do =) And communication is a good thing. If the two of you don't communicate well while dating, than it probably wouldn't get much/any better post-wedding. Post Reply
aurora846 View Profile History	Confused Posted : 7 Jul, 2010 09:02 PM im with riveroflife. be blunt dude. Girls annoy me that play games and it sounds like you are getting played with. Id ask her what she wants and see how it goes. If she cant give you a straight answer and youre not sure still, Id move ooooonnnnn!!!!! Just sayin' :) Post Reply
aurora846 View Profile History	Confused Posted : 7 Jul, 2010 09:03 PM im with riveroflife. be blunt dude. Girls annoy me that play games and it sounds like you are getting played with. Id ask her what she wants and see how it goes. If she cant give you a straight answer and youre not sure still, Id move ooooonnnnn!!!!! Just sayin' :) Post Reply
aurora846 View Profile History	Confused Posted : 7 Jul, 2010 09:03 PM im with riveroflife. be blunt dude. Girls annoy me that play games and it sounds like you are getting played with. Id ask her what she wants and see how it goes. If she cant give you a straight answer and youre not sure still, Id move ooooonnnnn!!!!! Just sayin' :) Post Reply
aurora846 View Profile History	Confused Posted : 7 Jul, 2010 09:03 PM im with riveroflife. be blunt dude. Girls annoy me that play games and it sounds like you are getting played with. Id ask her what she wants and see how it goes. If she cant give you a straight answer and youre not sure still, Id move ooooonnnnn!!!!! Just sayin' :) Post Reply
aurora846 View Profile History	Confused Posted : 7 Jul, 2010 09:04 PM HOLY SHENANIGANS! I DONT KNOW WHY THAT OPSTED LIKE 4X. SORRY Post Reply