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Ladies, if your hubby wants you to..
Posted : 17 Nov, 2010 04:38 PM

1. Wear certain dress (or even underwear)

2. Use certain make up (have no idea if there any guy even care about this, but it did cross my mind lol)

3. Have a certain hairstyle (doesn't necessarily have to be long - but pretty much you are not totally agree with his choice of the hairstyle. For example you have natural straight hair but he asked you to curl your hair which you do not mind to have curly hair, but just the fact of that act would bring damage to hair if we didn't take extra treatment for it, something like that)

4. Wear certain shoes or sandals (possibly high heels, again, doesn't even know if any guy would care about this)

5. Wear certain earrings, rings, necklace, bracelets?



His choices aren't against the bible, it is just a matter of his preferences. You are okay with that, his choices are not against your choices as well. And, he never forces you to go with his choices, but you know that it would make him happy if you do it.



How you would feel?

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Posted : 17 Nov, 2010 05:02 PM

Ooooh I forget to add this:



6. To gain or lose some weight



How would you feel about it? Would do it to make him happy?

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Posted : 17 Nov, 2010 06:13 PM

I dated a gal once who really did a poor job with her make-up. Us guys aren't entirely stupid and some us actually have a eye for art, or at least what looks good. Anyway without EVER criticizing her make-up I merely suggested that I thought a lighter blue eye shadow with some frost and less mascara would really compliment her.

*Big Mistake!*

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Posted : 17 Nov, 2010 06:25 PM

:ROFL:



I wasn't saying that men didn't have sense of art. But I just never thought that men do pay attention to it since I never hear men commenting on women's make up.

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Posted : 17 Nov, 2010 06:51 PM

As long as he asked nicely, and didn't expect me to always do everything to his exact specifications, then sure, I'd try to please him!

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Posted : 17 Nov, 2010 06:55 PM

Now you know why...we never do it more than once.

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Posted : 17 Nov, 2010 06:57 PM

How would it make me feel? Surprised, probably, if he was noticing details like that.

It might be fun to change details like that between us - him changing some and me changing some.

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Posted : 17 Nov, 2010 07:31 PM

I was married to a man that was an air brush artist and he did notice everything and requested certain things like more skirts, hair not short, no red lipstick and other special stuff that made him happy and I did it. There were a few things I just didn't like, like eating his mom's mexican "mole" peanut butter chicken~or driving a certain route that he felt was shorter than mine~ and he was okay with it He also dressed and looked certain ways for me and complimented me all the time~when his bi-polar demon wasn't out.



Marriage is a give-give relationship but not control ever. Love wins! :applause:

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Posted : 17 Nov, 2010 08:00 PM

depends on the when and where and how nicely he asks.

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Posted : 18 Nov, 2010 04:26 AM

Ok guys, we all know read the ladies' responses here. Most women would do whatever it takes to make you happy as long as (it is biblical) you ask it NICELY :winksmile:



Hope this tips would give you what you ask from your wife later! :goofball:

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Posted : 18 Nov, 2010 10:08 PM

I believe its a give and take and a two way traffic for both parties,as long as its not gonna be offensive to either.well,communication is a great key and once you get to talk to your partner in a nice way i believe change will be inevitable.everyone wants to please their spouse to a step at a time and share by communicating and see how amazing things turn out.

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