Author	Thread: CRITIC...............................isms.
cmseeker10 View Profile History	CRITIC...............................isms. Posted : 21 Nov, 2010 05:17 PM Hi ladies, 1.What do you do when a stranger tell you this . -You know what..................your shoulder is not proportioned to your hips. -Your butttt is curvy but you need to f.....? your b..bs to to be more balannced . -So on and so forth........finding whatever she sees is not good to her. 2.How would you react? It happend to me last week when I accompanied a friend to an aesthetic clinic.This nurse came to me with lots of comment on my looks.I would be so embarrased but thinking about her job,I know it's just her way of advertisement. Your thoughts ladies... To the guys....Looks is not that important....... right? Attractive mind matters too......right? Lady who can change her car tire when needed is more beautiful..........right ---Add more to the list.:nahnah::nahnah: Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	CRITIC...............................isms. Posted : 21 Nov, 2010 05:48 PM Everything matters, just like it does to women. To pretend that looks aren't a part of that would just be silly. What every guy prefers in looks differs, and I guarantee you that if you asked Christian husbands, they'd all consider their wife physically attractive, but there would be little discernible pattern in the wives appearance. Post Reply
View Profile History	CRITIC...............................isms. Posted : 21 Nov, 2010 05:50 PM Seeker: what is "an aesthetic clinic"??? Post Reply
cmseeker10 View Profile History	CRITIC...............................isms. Posted : 21 Nov, 2010 06:00 PM Thanks tulip you're absolutely right,only that attractive varies from every individual.What is attractive to me might not be to you or anybody else.I'm not saying it isn't important but it should not be the only preference. @ GL,when I wrote that I mean a plastic surgeon clinic where they do some face,nose,body reconstruction,ummm ya know what I mean.xoxo.. Lisa Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	CRITIC...............................isms. Posted : 21 Nov, 2010 06:18 PM You're welcome. It also differs within the person too. As I've said before, I've dated girls who ranged from like 5'3" to 5'9" and ridiculously skinny to pretty chunky. I've dated strawberry blondes, light brown hair, dark hair, etc. Big busts, small busts, in between busts, pale skin, tan skin, and even quite dark skin. I found all but one of them attractive. There were other reasons we broke up, but I can tell you from experience that dating someone you're simply not attracted to just doesn't work. They grow on you, but they can only grow on you so much. Flour is only one ingredient in cookies, but try to bake a batch without flour and see what happens! Post Reply
View Profile History	CRITIC...............................isms. Posted : 21 Nov, 2010 09:55 PM Some guys care don't care about the crumpled fender on their car. Some guys can't stand even a scratch on their car. You can't sell a car with a crumpled fender to a guy who can't stand a scratch. Post Reply
View Profile History	CRITIC...............................isms. Posted : 21 Nov, 2010 10:00 PM Horseman and Forrest Bump have a saying ;" Pretty is as pretty does" And there is this ; "Fat is a good color on dogs and horses" Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	CRITIC...............................isms. Posted : 21 Nov, 2010 10:04 PM While we're throwing out food/animal analogies, have you ever eaten a cut of steak with no marbling? Not tasty! Post Reply
View Profile History	CRITIC...............................isms. Posted : 21 Nov, 2010 10:15 PM In response to the original post, I'd probably have a real hard time not saying something very scathing and hurtful to her, like make derogatory comments about her physical features that were obviously 'doctored'. If I was in a good mood, I'd probably say, "I know, isn't it FABULOUS?" if she were to make a negative comment about something. I could be much, much worse, but that wouldn't be nice of me... I'm not a fan of measuring people's worth by physical characteristics... or money... or status... so I'd have a hard time in that office. Post Reply
cmseeker10 View Profile History	CRITIC...............................isms. Posted : 21 Nov, 2010 10:52 PM @ two spar ..fat is a good color on pigs too but not on woman:nahnah::nahnah: @ tulip a prok chop with out a little fat is not tasty as well. why did it turn to food and animal analogies???::eat::eat: @ silyii I know she dpoesn't mean to hurt feelings ,she might just be advertising .I just said to her nicely "Oh yes it might look that way to you but I love the my shape and will not going to change it just because it doesn't look good on anyone else." she just walk away from me.:yay::yay::yay::yay: Post Reply
View Profile History	CRITIC...............................isms. Posted : 21 Nov, 2010 11:11 PM @cmseeker Perhaps you could have asked the lady; "Why would want to tamper with a masterpiece from God?" Post Reply

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