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What does it mean when a woman says she is unavailable in her profile and wants friends how do I make her talk to me?
Posted : 25 Nov, 2010 12:17 AM

There is a woman on here that I've wrote at twice so far. I know she is on here because she posts in the chat topics here everyday. I don't know what the problem is then. She's here but not opening my message or responding. I added her as a favorite but she won't glance at my page even,she has 24 favorites, does that mean she is to busy to be nice? Her page says unavailable status, what does this mean, is she busy or alrready married. She's lives in the same state and is the perfect woman to merge our souls, I love to be getting to know her, how do I get her to notice me and write at me back? She's so beautiful and I gaze at her pictures many times.

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Posted : 25 Nov, 2010 01:53 AM

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Quit messaging her. She is on the forums, interact with her posts, let her get to know you. You are going straight at her...the best way to get her to go away from you or play games with you.

Most people on here want a relationship and want it right now...this impatience works against them. Look at the mating rituals of animals, if you pay attention you will notice they don't just get together the male and female go through a serious of interactions before any relationship takes place. No matter what others may say; we are not so different.

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Posted : 25 Nov, 2010 02:43 AM

Yes, she is beautiful inside out. And I believe she meant what she wrote on her profile. My suggestion, just be her friend. That's what she needs at the moment. Pray, and then God's intervention would help you a lot in this case, well at all cases actually :glow: don't be in a hurry or force her or you might lose her. Show her that you will be there no matter what, show your sincere love toward her, maybe - if God is willing - you two can be together someday. I bet she is open for Bible study as well :winksmile:



Good luck and be wise! :applause:

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Posted : 25 Nov, 2010 02:47 AM

I think I know who it is you are talking about and it sounds like she has a boyfriend. Twosp is right about letting people get to know you by what you post on the fourms.



If some one is not reading your letters or getting back to you then stop! You can not make some one like you. The more you push the more you push them away.

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Posted : 25 Nov, 2010 02:47 AM

PS. Don't bother that favourite list thingy. Do what you need to do as her brother in Christ :yay:

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Posted : 25 Nov, 2010 05:20 AM

Bunny,



There are a few things in your post that disturb me a little.



First you write:



�I don't know what the problem is then. She's here but not opening my message or responding�



Why do you assume that there is a problem? She does not want to reciprocate�it�s her prerogative�you need to respect that.



You also write:



�Her page says unavailable status, what does this mean,�



I would hope that you understand the meaning of �unavailable�. She is not available�for whatever reason�honor her request.



(Your words here) �She's lives in the same state and is the perfect woman to merge our souls,�



A huge statement and perhaps a bit premature (you haven�t even conversed with her yet). It would freak me out to hear someone (that I have not even met) say that about me (and to Live that close to me)! The word �Stalker� comes to mind.



When you end with:



�She's so beautiful and I gaze at her pictures many times.�



I think about Halloween (the movie)! You have to admit it�s a bit �creepy�!



Dial it back a bit Brother. If she is as pretty as you say she is I am certain that she is used to guys �drooling� over and on her. Do as The-Two-Birds-in-the-Bush Guy says and try a different approach. Show her that you are as concerned as she is about the same subjects that she answers in The Forum. Let her know who you are and what you are by getting involved.



Some times you have to whisper to be heard over everyone else SHOUTING!@ Also you might consider that she is not for you and one more thing�



�if I see you hanging around my house�I�ll FREAK!

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Posted : 25 Nov, 2010 07:53 AM

OK, I will try to resist writing at her again today, I'll wait for tomorrow. I sent her one on Tuesday and one on Wednesday. Her last post was Tuesday and I wrote at her on that topic and her other last topic, do you think she was online yesterday or does she leave early for T-day? I hope she notices me soon, I'm going crazy not having make a successful connect with her. She is more then beautiful she's smokin hot!!!! Her eyes see my soul, her lips bicken me close almost better than Angelena 's lips!, her hair is like wild sexy curls I want my hands in it.

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Posted : 25 Nov, 2010 09:01 AM

No offense, but constantly messaging a girl who hasn't replied to your messages, following her around the forums trying to start a conversation with her, and starting a thread asking how you can get her to talk to you sounds a little bit stalkerish. Calm down, take a step back, and if she wants to talk to you, she will. There's nothing attractive about desperation.

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Posted : 25 Nov, 2010 09:09 AM

Neither is there anything attractive about this-

"I hope she notices me soon, I'm going crazy not having make a successful connect with her. She is more then beautiful she's smokin hot!!!! Her eyes see my soul, her lips bicken me close almost better than Angelena 's lips!, her hair is like wild sexy curls I want my hands in it."

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Posted : 25 Nov, 2010 09:18 AM

She have just messaged me back but I'm confused over her words.

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Posted : 25 Nov, 2010 09:51 AM

I'm not buying this, something doesn't smell right, something doesn't feel right.....I can feel 'something'. Either way ; if you are for real or not, it doesn't matter both choices are disturbing, although if your putting us on ; that would be LESS disturbing.

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