Thank you for clicking! How are you all doing? I hope you`re doing fine!
The reason I`m writing this is to ask you about a guy I`ve met here. His user name was godanus. He forgot a "D" there. What he meant was godandus. So yes, no "D" on his username. It sounds correct in English when you say it even though it`s quite weird when you read it but well, nobody`s perfect, right?
I have come to meet him and we got close and intimate and we fell in love and I mean that wholeheartedly. He has fallen for me as well but I wonder about the veracity of his words cause frankly that`s all we`ve got here right? Pictures and words. Even though you call each other and/or see each other through a camera, how can you know the truth FOR REALS?
The reason I question this is cause he`s been banned from the web site. I contacted the ones in charge of this web site to explain why but they refuse to disclose the real reason why he was banned cause of privacy matters. Well, I somewhat agree with it but disagree as well I mean, so if I create a profile here and put myself out there hoping to meet people that are honest and real like I strive to be, there`s a chance I might meet a scammer and there`s not much I can do about it if I do meet him! I mean, if he happens to live abroad and I actually go there or he comes over here, how should I really know if what he says is true? I need consistency and they`re not giving me that. Now I know I`m for real, you can google me if you want. I`m there. It`s me and I`ve nothing to lie about. I mean, why lie? God is watching and I believe we should treat people the way we want to be treated. If I don`t wanna be lied to, I shouldn`t lie either! If I don`t wanna suffer, I should not make others suffer!
So before I actually meet him in person and put love, effort, time, money and everything of me could you please share any information you may have?
If you have contacted him, could you please let me know about it? I know he met other girls here before me. He told me so. But I`m not sure about the content of the conversation. What if he said things to them that he didn`t say to me?
If you wanna ask me more before answering I`b be more than happy to answer.
It`s reall important to me cause there`s no other way of really knowing the truth. I don`t wanna have to hire a private investigator to find the truth for me. It would be very distressing! And traumatizing I mean, think about it! You genuinely fall in love with someone but then some weird things happen along the way and you`re unsure and you don`t wanna destroy your future with all the love, time and effort spent on someone! Please put yourself in my shoes and help me out!
I`ve been meaning to do this here, share this with you guys and ask for help for a while but never really got around to it.
Take it from a lady who has had similar experiences: He's a scammer. Run, do not walk from this man. I have not talked to him, but if he got banned you can be assured he is a scammer.
Unless he got scorned by another lady on here and she reported him as a scammer out of spite, which could happen. But I think your instincts about being really SURE are right -- God is telling you not to trust him.
The site once told me that they read emails after a complaint has been made to avoid banning someone wrongly. If your gentleman has been banned, think long and hard about it. There is a really good reason. The rules on this site are not that hard to follow. Considering they let us come here for free, in mho, it behooves us to follow their rules. Someone not capable of doing that sends up serious red flags.
