Author	Thread: New to this but I have a question?
Admin	New to this but I have a question? Posted : 2 Apr, 2011 11:36 PM Is there anything wrong with my profile ladies? Is it being to direct and forward or what? I have been taking the first step by messaging some girls on here first,but alot of them do not reply back? so that's why I'm wondering if there's anything wrong with my profile? All answers are welcome and please be truthful no matter what it is you have to say.Thanks in advance. Post Reply
View Profile History	New to this but I have a question? Posted : 3 Apr, 2011 12:03 AM Hello, Benjamin =) Alright, here we go... truthful I shall be... starting from the top... "Prefer Not To Say" is not an acceptable answer in the "Smoker" field. If a lady does not wish to date a smoker, you've just put her in the uncomfortable position of having to ask, "Do you smoke?" Just be upfront and honest. Pictures: Add more! Spelling/grammar/punctuation: Clean it up. You have quite a few errors, and this is a turn-off for many women. It needs to be broken down into paragraphs, as well. Regarding wanting a Proverbs 31 woman: This is a very "cookie cutter" statement to make. SO many profiles say this. Yet, when I actually speak with these guys, they can't actually tell me what they even mean by the statement. So, rather than saying you wish to have a Proverbs 31 woman, I would get specific here. Do you mean that you wish for her to be a stay-at-home mom? Do you mean that you think she should have a home business? What exactly are you envisioning when you make that statement? Also, I think that you should address the fact that you are unemployed. Do you have a plan? Will you be going to school? Are you looking for a job? Wanting to be an evangelist is great, but what are you doing to make that happen? Have you applied to Bible schools? Are you going to be able to pay the bills and provide for a wife and children? Those are all questions that most young ladies will have when seeing that you are unemployed. Not providing an answer upfront may deter her, as it could be interpreted as you not having a plan... not having direction, etc. Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	New to this but I have a question? Posted : 3 Apr, 2011 05:52 AM What Pixy said. Post Reply
Foxx View Profile History	New to this but I have a question? Posted : 3 Apr, 2011 11:20 AM I think that your profile is fine, it states what you like, and what you want. It tells us good key points that someone could start a conversation with and thats exactly what its for. There is nothing wrong with it. As for girls not messaging you back, I don't know what to tell you. I personally like to message everyone back no matter what their profiles say, because thats only a glimpse of their personality. Post Reply