Author	Thread: Would you rather?
Admin	Would you rather? Posted : 8 Apr, 2011 10:56 PM As much as I like that game this is not it, got ya. haha. Also, I do have a real question in that same form. Would you rather have no reply, maybe your message read, and not be told that they are not interested OR would you rather receive a kind message that they are not interesting. Personally I would rather get a kind message back saying that they are not interested, but sometimes I am not sure what to do. I usual reply and try to communicate to make it clear that I am interested in friendship with that individual. My biggest concern is that I don't want to hurt any girls feelings or lead any girl on. What are your guys thoughts? Post Reply
View Profile History	Would you rather? Posted : 9 Apr, 2011 02:03 AM No man on earth is strong enough to write "not interstead"... Would wanna know he is not interesting instead of reading and ignoring ;) That's why men thinks women are mean and cruel because we say what's on our brain Post Reply
Phoebe2 View Profile History	Would you rather? Posted : 9 Apr, 2011 11:45 AM Well, up front & direct approach is the best reply whether u are interested or not. That's also what a godly person would do. I'd say "no reply" is to be considered a reply too. It's not so hard to figure out that he's not interested when I don't hear back from him, if u know what I mean. @ Mount, I disagree with u, many guys would say they're not interested in a woman, when they are confident enough, and have got the right words without offending or hurting her feelings. Post Reply
View Profile History	Would you rather? Posted : 9 Apr, 2011 11:51 AM MountOfBlessing, Haha, I guess that's why real men are considered GENTLEmen and LADies are considered women. Just throwing it out there. haha. For real though, I have problem with telling a girl that I am not interest, but is the kindness factor that depends on how I say it. I have told girls that I am not interested, but I was never mean about it. I think some girls have a tendency to mean and think that guys these roughians that don't have feelings, which is not true. Guys have feelings too even if they don't admit it. Guys are strong and get over things most times faster than girls, but that doesn't mean that we don't feel. Just my thoughts. Post Reply
View Profile History	Would you rather? Posted : 9 Apr, 2011 11:54 AM Forgot to proofread. :P The first sentance should read: "For real though, I have no problem with telling a girl that I am not interest, but is the kindness factor that depends on how I say it." not: "For real though, I have problem with telling a girl that I am not interest, but is the kindness factor that depends on how I say it." I forgot the "NO". Haha. Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	Would you rather? Posted : 9 Apr, 2011 12:34 PM Come on Mount. Is it really that hard to pick up on the fact that he's not interested if he doesn't write you back? Post Reply
View Profile History	Would you rather? Posted : 9 Apr, 2011 12:43 PM In my limited experience, men do not respond if they are not interested. Having been on the receiving end of that and really hating it, I RARELY will not respond if someone sends me a message. Even if to just give a polite "Thank you for your interest but I don't think we would be a good match", I will respond. To do otherwise is, in my personal opinion, rude. Talkin' about emails here. Profile views with nothing else and/or winks with nothing else is, again in my opinion, not mandatory to respond to. Post Reply
View Profile History	Would you rather? Posted : 9 Apr, 2011 04:09 PM I really would rather have a sorry im not interested. Then no reply. :nahnah: Post Reply
View Profile History	Would you rather? Posted : 10 Apr, 2011 01:28 PM I would prefer a message with the "no thank you"...seems much more up-front and to-the-point. Post Reply